my boyfriend who is the baby's father goes to every appt even if its just a basic 5 min appt he loves being there

My husband just went for the ultrassound to find out the sex. and to the one before 'cause I was sure that at 16 weeks I was having the gender reveal US. But there's really no reason at all for him to lose a day at work just for going with me.. it's usually pretty quick.

if its just a routine appointment ill tell my bf he doesnt need to go but he wont let me go myself. he wants to be there for every single one. ❤

My husband did with our first but hasnt with our second i just dont see the need to have him there if im not in labor i can tell him everything the dr says when he gets off work.

lmfao i can picture my boyfrienddoing the same thing! @jessica0830 ! i have to get a doppler!

my husband had missed the first two appointments that cause he was out of town working and missed the last one due to work but other than that he was at every one...

@brittneylove, and we have a Doppler at home so he hears the baby's heart beat when ever he wants.

@brittneylove, and the one mine did come to before we found out he was being a pain in the ass because he's never really been in an OG/GYN office. Touching all the stuff! "They stick this in your vagina! It looks like a claw! That thing is huge" And "what's this! This looks funny!" 😩😩😩😂😂😂

@jessica0830, yeah he said he wont be missing ANY ultrasound appts so i guess those are the main ones that matter because it is true.. he'll just be in the way and bored lol

My husband comes to all of mine with me, even though I told him he doesn't have to. The way his face lights up when we hear our boy's heartbeat melts my heart. He is already so involved and can't wait to be a daddy!

@emeliaday, yay!!!!!! I love finding other mommies close to my due date!!!!

mine never missed an appointment with both my girls as well as thos pregnancy. its not a bad thing if he doesnt make it.

My doc gave me 4/24 but the app has us both at 25 weeks 6 days :). Pretty close @jessica0830

@emeliaday, really!!!! April 22nd?!?!?

@jessica0830, I think we are due date buddies. 💜💜

my SO only comes to ultrasounds for me bc that's what I wanted, no need for OB visits since they're pretty simple & very boring

My SO has only been to two of my appointments, our 20 week sono and when he was off work over Christmas. It's hard for him to go to every single appointment bc he works out of town but he made sure he requested a couple of days for the 20 week sonogram to find out what we're having. But as soon as I'm in the car leaving I'm on the phone with him letting him know what's going on and what the dr says

@emeliaday, Awww I have a SO (kinda) and I still go alone lol. Unless my mom wants to come.

No. The ultrasound yes depending on his schedule but the regular doctors appointments are boring and usually really quick unless you're getting the stress test done and even then they're boring just long and boring so I never try to drag him along. There's nothing to see and nothing he can do but get in the damn way lol

Yeah don't worry too much about it, it bothered me at first but you start to understand that why so it makes you better.

he doesn't go to every appointment. ultrasound today...he's not coming

mine isn't able to go to most because of his job!

thanks ladies! i feel much better about it now! i guess its my hormones making me feel some type of way for a bit!

@emeliaday @emmajeremy2627 @jjbutton @megbaby07 @mimiz @kcal12 @mommyslittleangels11

my fiance missed my first appt cause he couldn't get off of work but he has been to every single appt after that. he said he doesn't wanna miss anything

No honey of course you're not hello girls go alone and dad ain't around!! Keep in your mind that he cares and confirms with that message don't let it out you down

he only comes to sono appts.. the other appts are so short and too early in the morning i don't mind letting him sleep...

@mimiz, yeah he has already texted me to see if im back there yet and how its going. i just wanna make sure im not a loser for being here by myself you know?

no its not:) I go every month and its just me and my 1 year old daughter. For the gender ultrasound since that's really important he was able to get the morning off so he could go:)@brittneylove

No SO - I go to all alone

Mine came to the important ones. Ultrasounds Ect .. I didn't want him to miss work once a month for a 5 min appointment

My husband has been to couple of mine, I've been going to the others alone. But he has gone to all the ultrasounds except one I had this past Monday cause he had to work..and I actually didn't mind going alone. As long as he's there with me in the delivery room, I am happy :)

@emmajeremy2627, so like its not out of the norm? i figure the ultrasound ones are most important for someone to be there. i just started feeling alone but i told him not to worry about it lol

Mine is planning on coming to every one of them. I'm sure if its nothing too important, he would just stay home. But as for the important ones such as the ultrasounds, he wouldn't want to miss them.

Mine as only been too the first confirmation one and maybe one other, other than that he doesn't because he works all day. I usually just ask my mom to go with me

Nope I go alone or with my mom my husband works a lot so I told him I want him at the anatomy scan and when the baby gets a bit bigger and he will go but he gets bored easily Nd honestly I'd rather have him at work I'm usually in and out anyway and I catch him up he always calls on point to see if I'm out and how everything went but it is sad when you sit there alone and everyone has their partner they look at you funny and I smile because I'm married and my husband doesn't need to tail me I know he cares

my hubby comes to every appt cause he knows I don't want to go alone, even when I tell him he doesn't have to come.

My husband missed a few of them, but he works from home. Also, I was so sick in the beginning I didn't drive until about 20 weeks

I go to every appointment alone because my hubby works all day. the only ones where a family member comes is if its an ultrasound since no kids allowed back there.

my boyfriend has been to everyone but this one because of work. it was fine with me tho because I knew they we're just gonna check my belly

mines has been to EVERY single one of them and hasn't missed a beat since we found out I was pregnant even when i tell him he can stay home he still comes