So tell me if I'm being a salty b*tch.
Lately from the time my bf wakes up he's talking to his sister. No goodmorning to me or goodmorning kiss (like he usually would) and shes the last person he talks to before bed sometimes. And throughout the day theyre messaging. I get they recently became close but like c'mon. I try talking to him and hes like "what" maybe put your phone down. 😒😒 just super annoyed. And lastnight I asked him to pick me up some candy. Comes home with food from sheetz for himself and no candy like thanks.
I would sit and tell him that you feel he is constantly tuning you out and that you miss time with him. Let him know you’re happy he and his sister are doing so well but that you feel a bit neglected and ask him if he could make bedtime and waking up a special time that you two connect before reaching out to others (or some other solution).
If him talking to his sister too much is your only relationship problem, you are very blessed.
From a sister’s perspective here:
When my brother and I were super close, it really bothered his then girlfriend. She thought it was weird that he would text me all day and I thought it was weird she never saw a healthy relationship within siblings. We grow up with these humans, my brother was my first best friend and showed me A LOT about life. I’m not saying this is the case for everyone- but my brother and I had a lot to talk about and we enjoyed each other’s opinions on every aspect in life.
Just talk to him, and express that you want to feel like his #1 and not on the side lines.
You’re entitled to your feelings in your relationship. A simple conversation can really make a difference solely because he might not think anything is wrong.