Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Locking your doors We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Mandie B·
The guardian of family friend is gonna hold the gun until my dad comes in..she has 15 yo at her house too. I just cant believe hes that stupid
sherry S·
There’s going to have to be a point he your brother takes accountability for his actions regardless of ones upbringing, my mom lost both her parent’s when she was 11 yrs old with in 3 months of each other ,she was not motherly and not grandmother,”I learned to be a better parent and be the mother I always wanted to my 3 son’s , sometimes especially boys need pushing to get motivated to have a plan after high school
Mandie B··
I know his childhood doesn't matter like I said in my paragraph. I told my step mom the only thing that's gonna work or might work is he's never gonna learn until something bad happens....i guess there's just no fixing him but let him run off on his own. He'll be back though cause he has no where to go. Just hope he doesn't get hurt in the streets
BunsInMyOven·
He’s an adult, he needs to reap the consequences of his actions. Let him leave🤷♀️
Mandie B··
I agree. But he'll be back. He has no where to go.
BunsInMyOven··
maybe that’s the problem
Mandie B··
@phoebesmommy my stepmom has always gave in no matter what. We try to tell her but she babies him every time
sherry S·
The whole thing with the gun is scary because, if he’s making stupid choices at 19 to sell your dads gun to a 16 yr old, Does he realize if that 16 yr does anything with that gun he can be prosecuted as well ,did u know for example if someone tried to rob a bank and someone who worked there or was there had a heart attack because of it and died they would be charged with murder even if the didn’t shoot the person , so hope he realizes his actions can have dangerous consequences
Mandie B··
I tried to explain to him how he could have just himself or those around him. Him and this 16 yo are so obsessed with being cool and with the crowd, they don't even know what they're doing. He's so stubborn though. You can watch him steal something and he'll swear up and down on his life that he didn't. He never tells the truth. I just don't know anymore 😕
mamaste·
Does he have mental issues from the abuse?
I’d look into that.
mamaste··
@mandehhhx3,
Those medications can alter the brain and can cause serious behavioral issues, especially if they were forced on him so young.
I’m sorry, this has to be hard for you and your brother. I hope he asks for help and he can live life, wishing happiness and healing for you both.
Mandie B··
thank you so much! I know it seems like I'm trying to put it all on our childhood but he was still young when he had to go through a lot. I honestly don't know what to do anymore, neither does my dad.
mamaste··
You could call someone that can help people like him who aren’t safe for themselves and society, it seems unfair and awful but he can end up hurting himself or someone else, getting him help should be a priority even if you have to force him.
If he declines therapy that could be the next option.