Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .
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@babeylarissa, bd doesn't agree but we aren't together so I don't care 😂 it was HELL for a couple months standing my ground but it's worked 👍🏻 now she doesn't see my daughter and I don't worry about that. On to the next issue. Why don't you want his mom taking pictures?
ugh i wish my husband agreed to her not being able to see her it just sucks she doesnt listen she takes it offensive like if she does nothing wrong!
@babeylarissa, it's so stressful!! I don't allow bd mom to see her. So now I don't have to worry about ! She made racial slurs about my daughter and I almost lost my shit! 😂
thats how i feel with my mother in law but i made a rule she cant take pictures & im so worried that she wont listen she hasnt seen her & shes been begging to see her but i keep telling my hubby no i know shes not gonna listen or shes gonna argue!
😂 why do stupid men have to have sperm?? I will empty all my savings for a solution to stop stupid people from breeding
@kambam, right?!?! That's what I told him before he left. We had a discussion and I said "you're 27 years old. It's time to grow up. I'm 22 and look at the responsibilities I've taken on alone. Grow up or move on" and he went off on some tangent about the same shit as usual
Haha and if you believe that I'm the queen of England lol
Lmao. I get the sameeee typa shit! Our generation really raised some winners. My bd is 30 fucking years old but I know 25yr old guys and younger who are better with my son AND me 💁
@mommysbabies, that's what my mom was telling me! I've kept everything and all the texts he's sent me so when he decides to take me to court I have proof.. he says that I texted him to get him to say those things so I can take her from him 😂😂 yeah dude I asked to be abused
@kambam, I mentioned it and I got my ass chewed out so I let it go. There's bigger battles to be fought I feel like. But it doesn't take away the frustration! I don't send pictures of my daughter to guys I'm talking to and all he does is swear I send them to my "new boyfriend" and that I should just have him be her new dad so he can leave
Like wtf are you talking about dude??
If he can't pass a drug test all he will ever get is visitation as long as you bring up drug use in court and always do contact through messages and and all that so if you need to go to court you have proof
Oh yeah, hell no! Idc about having photos but you should both agree on which are posted to social media and who they are sent to!! Just because he's dad doesnt give him the consent to post her photos all around town.
@kailey.gallentine. yess hes never done anything financially for her oh wow he bought her water for a dollar he felt like he needed a trophy for that
@kambam, right?! I still tell him the days he can come over and such. "State mandated standard visitation" is once a week and every other weekend which is equivalent to the amount I allow him to see her and he chooses to not stay long. So that's on his stupid ass. And omg!!!! He does that too and I tell him to put the phone away and follow my rules or you can't come over. He'll text his gfs and send them pictures of my daughter and it drives me up the wall! It's girls I've had problems with ever since high school. And "I don't do that?!" Then get the hell out of here !!!!! Lol
And that's what my mom keeps telling me but I don't want her to have to go through the hurt and disappointment I did by finding out he's not who he says he is
@cassandra__, I don't get it!! If they put in the effort like some grown men do they would get all the perks they want! I tell him all the time if you want to be here physically you need to be here spiritually, emotionally, and financially as well. You don't get to be a Disneyland dad. Yet he still doesn't bring anything and it's so frustrating and every other week he comes over he fights me on how I keep her from him
@mommysbabies, see that's how he was too! We broke up 2 months before she was born (he was abusive and got into legal trouble because he almost killed someone)
Once I broke up with him he went on a tangent saying he wished I would've killed my daughter and all this other crazy things and said he was gonna kill me. I'm just stuck and don't know what to do. He says he's clean but he used to say he was clean all the time when I was with him when he wasn't so I don't know what to do
Hahaha just tell him you know where I live mf! Babygirl is always here. My sons dad will only sit and watch stupid videos on youtube with him. I say can you please not let him watch that crap? Then I get accused of calling him a bad dad etc etc ♀️♀ ask him to read books "NO I DONT DO THAT SORRY" tf you do then?? 😂 I let him be and he'll learn as his son grows up and gets smarter.
@kambam, that's what I try to do but then I turn into a helicopter mom! 😂😂 he doesn't do anything right and treats her like a porcelain doll. I'm starting to notice when he leaves she is starting to expect us to do everything for her. He isn't on the same parenting page. Ugh I'm sure I'm the one being ridiculous but I can't help it. He's slowly stopped coming around but he's holding on to the fact I'll allow him to come over but then whole time he's there he complains that I'm keeping her from him
Girl yess that's exactly how my baby daddi is he tells everyone that im keeping him from his daughter that i dont let him see her .when in fact he chooses on his own to stay away to not call or text.
He was there in the beginning but once they split up and he kicked her and her son out he has only visited a handful of times he is a junky and a loser sorry I really don't like him I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt till I watched him cover my nephews face over with a blanket when he was three months old but I was still cordial it wasn't till I knew she was done with him that I truly expressed my feelings towards him
I know! Its still awful. Youre both on a different journey right now though. When hes there visiting just keep busy. Say hello, goodbye and see ya next time 😂
@mommysbabies, I technically have "100% custody." Because we weren't married he has no rights unless he files and he's as dumb as a box of rocks so he won't file unless we enable it. I honestly think if I moved to another state he wouldn't come after us. I'm just stuck and this is so hard 🙃 was he there at all or did he just not come around at all?
Got ya yeah my sister in law has full custody and dad doesn't see son he is in different state
@kambam, hahah that's what I remind my myself when I feel my feelings going crazy ! I know it could be worse but it still doesn't take the pain away
If you heard the stories about my bd... 😂 taking pics and leaving would be refreshing
@mommysbabies, right now he doesn't have a job . So he refuses to pay anything. I don't want to file for child support because it'll egg him on for a custody battle. Let's be honest, if I can't emotionally take him having pictures of my daughter there's no way that I can handle him having more than visitation. It literally makes me sick to my stomach thinking I couldn't be with her and wouldn't have her next to me every night
No worries yeah does he get paid under the table because if he doesn't you can have the courts take the money out of his paycheck every week
@mommysbabies, that's what I keep telling myself. And that's exactly how he is! He won't pay anything or help with anything and says she's not his responsibility. He lifted his truck, got new rims, tiny, etc but wouldn't pay his child support because he can't survive with paying it. It'll put him out on the streets if he pays it. He's always the victim. He acts like my daughter is a show pony. He doesn't ask to talk to her on FaceTime or ask for pictures or ask how she's doing, he only comes over for his visitation and leaves early every time . Ugh! I'm so frustrated !
Sorry mama! I just need to vent lol
@6.5.16, that's what I've been doing. I was so mad I was shaking but I didn't say anything because at the end of the day he is her father. As much as I don't like it, it's the truth 🙄
People will eventually realize it's a show let him make himself look like the fool it's what I tell my sister in law to do although in her case I think dad should sign rights over because he doesn't make an effort unless it's convenient for him and there was an incident that I witnessed when my nephew was only a few months old that I don't trust him with my nephew
@kambam, he is blocked on everything, but I know he posts shit like that because I used to have him on social media he posts how hard it is to be a single dad and that he does so much and blah blah blah and we keep her from him but he's the one who skips out on his visitation and refuses to pay child support or buy her anything because "she's not his responsibility and she isn't special to him anymore"
Its out of your control 😐 just block him. Anyone who knows you needs no explanation of the situation
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@babeylarissa, ok! 💜