So, my boyfriend and I did not plan this pregnancy. He has been told multiple times by doctors (before meeting me) that he won't be able to have kids without intervention because his sperm count is SOMETIMES in the thousands. Usually it's not even at 10. So we didn't really worry. Until I got pregnant.
I live with my dad and my boyfriend just signed a 12 month lease with his parents so his parents could afford a place. Also his brother lives there and is finally deciding to get a job. So his place is full.
My dad doesnt know about the pregnancy yet.
My boyfriends mom knows and says when the baby comes we are welcome to stay there but I cannot stand a crowded house. I cant handle people all around me, especially when I barely know them. I feel so at a loss about what to do. Especially since my kid isnt in school yet and my dad is the one who watches her when I work.
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I'm due in January with an estimated due date of the 14th but I may need another c section so the baby may be here around Jan 4th. My kid is gonna be in school next year but I worry about how she will do academically because she is still behind on her speech and she requires a lot of attention otherwise she gets bored and fidgety and destructive
@teri.m.green, that’s how my 7 yo is. He’s still behind. He’s adhd and takes meds for it. She’ll get help in school from the school with speech and whatever else she may need help with.my 5yo is all over the place, I’m sure he’s adhd too. Maybe you should get her checked for it when she turns 5.
@sabi.bishh that's exactly what I've been thinking she has. Shes hyperactive, her sleep schedule gets screwed up if she takes a literal 10 minute nap. She cannot chill for a second without stimulation. She honestly acts just like my brother who has adhd, also left handed and artistic like him too. And she ignores everything I say
Wow that's a tough pickle that your in , hopefully things get better for you 💜
Are you still early?? Like in pregnancy? By time baby is born your daughter will start kindergarten. It all will work out just fine, don’t stress to much.