So, my boyfriend and I did not plan this pregnancy. He has been told multiple times by doctors (before meeting me) that he won't be able to have kids without intervention because his sperm count is SOMETIMES in the thousands. Usually it's not even at 10. So we didn't really worry. Until I got pregnant.
I live with my dad and my boyfriend just signed a 12 month lease with his parents so his parents could afford a place. Also his brother lives there and is finally deciding to get a job. So his place is full.
My dad doesnt know about the pregnancy yet.
My boyfriends mom knows and says when the baby comes we are welcome to stay there but I cannot stand a crowded house. I cant handle people all around me, especially when I barely know them. I feel so at a loss about what to do. Especially since my kid isnt in school yet and my dad is the one who watches her when I work.
I'm due in January with an estimated due date of the 14th but I may need another c section so the baby may be here around Jan 4th. My kid is gonna be in school next year but I worry about how she will do academically because she is still behind on her speech and she requires a lot of attention otherwise she gets bored and fidgety and destructive
@teri.m.green, that’s how my 7 yo is. He’s still behind. He’s adhd and takes meds for it. She’ll get help in school from the school with speech and whatever else she may need help with.my 5yo is all over the place, I’m sure he’s adhd too. Maybe you should get her checked for it when she turns 5.
@sabi.bishh that's exactly what I've been thinking she has. Shes hyperactive, her sleep schedule gets screwed up if she takes a literal 10 minute nap. She cannot chill for a second without stimulation. She honestly acts just like my brother who has adhd, also left handed and artistic like him too. And she ignores everything I say
Wow that's a tough pickle that your in , hopefully things get better for you 💜
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Should I let my x know when labor starts
Are you still early?? Like in pregnancy? By time baby is born your daughter will start kindergarten. It all will work out just fine, don’t stress to much.