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I need to vent for one second. I might sound ungrateful right now but believe me I’m not I’m just emotional for some…

I need to vent for one second. I might sound ungrateful right now but believe me I’m not I’m just emotional for some reason but here we go. So yesterday my husband asked me what I wanted for Mother’s Day and I told him surprise me. Mind you my husband isn’t the romantic kind and I’m trying to get it out of him but anywho I’m laying in the room sick today and he comes in with a bouquet of flowers and a zales bag so instantly I’m smiling so hard even though it isn’t Mother’s Day he thought about me. So anywho he hands me the flowers which were only about 10$ for which I’m still grateful. So I noticed he sits the zale bag in the bathroom on the counter so I’m thinking whatever it is obviously mines. So I got downstairs for a drink and I noticed two other bouquets that look exactly like mines and I asked who are those for, he said for his mom and sister. So then I ask well who got something from zales and he was like “oh I bought myself some 100$ earrings”. Soooo yeah of course buying your mother and sister and I the same flowers and by yourself something special was suppose to make me feel special. Yeah ok. Do you girls think I’m overreacting and being selfish?? Honest opinions

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Buy him a pack of socks for Father's day and get yourself a nice necklace the day before. Bam. Lol. I'd be irritated though.

coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸

Мама троих детей

YAAAS🙌🏽😂

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@sorcha fight petty with petty 😏

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@ebonymiller39 I like to match the petty as best as I can 😂 last year I didn't get anything. I already bought his crap that year so this year he's not getting crap 😂😂😂

sorcha

Sorcha

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I like your style @mychemicalshaymance I like it very much!

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

🧐🤔 sounds like a good idea. Make him feel what I felt 🤷‍♀️ I can definitely be petty

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ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

Well I’ll definitely update y’all later and let y’all know 🤣 I highly doubt I get anything but we’ll see

mojobebes

👻

Мама двоих (младенец)

Still not Mother’s Day... maybe, hopefully for his sake, he will have an awesome gift for you tomorrow! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

mrsc2018

Meagan

Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (23 нед.)

Maybe he is trying to surprise you. If not i would tell him about himself

thood

❤️

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)

I would fucking lose my shoot, oml🤦🏻‍♀️

tamrasnider199

Tamra

В ожидании первенца

Like I have seen a couple people who said that he probably going to surprise you just wait and see

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Buy him a pack of socks for Father's day and get yourself a nice necklace the day before. Bam. Lol. I'd be irritated though.

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@ebonymiller39 I like to match the petty as best as I can 😂 last year I didn't get anything. I already bought his crap that year so this year he's not getting crap 😂😂😂

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@sorcha fight petty with petty 😏

coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸

Мама троих детей

YAAAS🙌🏽😂

coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸

Мама троих детей

Not even gonna bullshit, I would be real annoyed & quite hurt honestly.

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

I’m very hurt but I’ll get over it I guess

coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸

Мама троих детей

I would speak up & say something. Let him know it hurt your feelings. It’s not even about the money it’s about the thought that went into it. I believe he should have been thinking of a more personal & special gift for you & gave his mom & sister the flowers. Flowers are nice not saying he shouldn’t or couldn’t get them for you as well, but not matching theirs & certainly not JUST that if that’s exactly what he got them.

nolensmommeeplus1

Amanda Taylor

Мама сына (7 лет)

I'd be upset too but maybe wait to see what he actually does for you on mother's day. Maybe those flowers were more just because...

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

I wish I could be that hopeful but he works all day tomorrow so what I got today was the gift for Mother’s Day 😢

nolensmommeeplus1

Amanda Taylor

Мама сына (7 лет)

well damn I was trying to give the benefit of doubt. Maybe he will surprise you. Him getting nice earrings for himself is pretty selfish. Keep his same energy when Father's Day comes around 😍

sorcha

Sorcha

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I'd be mad and I'd tell him. *granted maybe he got another gift there too as a surprise for tomorrow. 🤷‍♀️ but

I'd just remind him that his gifts for me are from the kids and to have the kids pick items for me or he needs to. Maybe to drive it home I'd ask his mom in front of him "I'm wondering, what did you get from 'husbands name' when he was 'your child age'."

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

Trust me the “Surprise” I got today was it I can assure you. He works 12 hours shift tomorrow so that’s why he chose to do it today 🙄 I would normally be petty but I’m too sick for that today 🤣🤣🤣 but I’m definitely asking him calmly as possible once his family leaves. I just literally wanna know how the heck did he think buying all of us the same thing was just cool like that. I’m his wife they are his mom and sister that’s a huge difference 🤦‍♀️

sorcha

Sorcha

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

for sure! I'd definitely let him know that's no cool. Unless of course your buying him and his brother and all Male relatives the same things too. 😅

I'd definitely call him on it. Plus a father's job is to teach his kids how to appreciate their mothers on mothers day. His mother shouldn't get the same gift has his sister either 🤦‍♀️

massgirl

Mandy

Мама дочки (4 года)

I'd be super annoyed. He probably shopped the mother's day sale at Zales to get those earrings lol

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

🤣🤣 I bet he did. And still didn’t even think twice about getting his wife maybe a new wedding ring or necklace or something 🤬

tattoomamaxo

Fuckyourself

Мама сына (1 год)

Lmaoo💀 definitely hit a sale🤣 but @ebonymiller39, I’d be annoyed to girl!

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

🤣🤣 I know he did too lol

bmarie727

Bridgett

Мама троих детей

I’m not going to lie I’d b rather pissed 😡 😤

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

Girl I’m pissed. Trust me he’s going to hear about this soon as his family leaves. I can’t hold this shit in 🤬

bmarie727

Bridgett

Мама троих детей

I wouldn’t

mimixtmn

Mimi

Мама четверых детей

No I don’t think your over reacting. I mean him buying you his sister and mother the same flowers could be summed up as just being a man and not realizing it isn’t as special if it’s basically the same for all. However I find him buying himself a gift the day before Mother’s Day to be completely selfish.

ebonymiller39

Mshotgirl

Right! I’m just hiding in my bathroom right now crying because I do feel like he was being very selfish. Even though I know he probably didn’t mean any harm but it really hurts.

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