It’s breaking my heart leaving him everyday. It seems to hit me at night that my little boy isn’t with me. Everyday is one day closer to bringing my little bundle home.
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It never gets easier but you do learn to cope better. Remember your hormones will be settling down at the moment too. I always tried to tell myself she is my baby the nurses are simply helping me out a little which I didn’t like but had to accept. I wrote a daily diary for her to note her journey.
Also the unit we had had a child psychologist in one day speaking to people and he said as long as your in everyday or consistent they recognise you, they know your mum and find comfort in you that nobody else can give them. Your cuddles improve his brain development immensely so get him out and enjoy those peaceful moments when your in together. It only made me feel a tiny bit more at ease and comfier leaving her.
The nurses aren’t doing it all for you, you’re doing amazing!
@casey19, I’ve managed to get him some tiny baby baby grows at vests but struggling for hats and cardigans. They’ve given me some for the mean time. I was looking at the tommee tippee bottles we bought before he was born and they are literally huge compared to his head 😂
@mrsbodell, yep clothes are a nightmare! Ailsa fits in tiny baby or upto 1 month now. In terms of cardigans and hats our unit sold donated ones for £1 but I also bought some from ebay they arrived super quick.
@casey19, they’ve given me a hat and cardigan and my mums got the knitting needles out already
@vicci87, @chloeanabelle.xo, thank you ladies, I really appreciate it. It’s such a weird feeling to leave your baby behind in someone else’s care. I’m so independent when it comes to looking after my children so it’s hard to watch someone do it all for me. I can’t fault them though. All the neonatal team have been amazing with us. Just waiting for those magic words we can take him home!
It's hard to sit back and let someone else take care of your baby, he's in the best place, hes going to get big and strong and he's going to be home before you know it!xx
This is such a beautiful picture! We have never really spoken but im here if you need a chat, it killed me leaving cjay in the neonatal so i understand how you feel xxx
I know how you feel, feel free to message me for a chat or a rant. It’s a shitty feeling, I won’t say it gets easier but you will learn to cope better x
Aww the look on you face staring down at him, that's a mothers love right there ☝️ 🥰 Hope hes back home with you asap. At least the hospital is being thorough before sending him home 👍 Hes so tiny bless him 😊
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I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Another post got me thinking.?
He gets better & better everyday! My sweet baby gained a little bit of weight today 💙💙💙☺️☺️☺️☺️ #Armani💪🏽
aww big hugs and thoughts! Keep strong, he will be home soon xx