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I was a side chick when I was younger , idk what the f*** was wrong with me , low self esteem? Totally f*** ed up my head though knowing how easy it is to lie to your SO on the phone while you're lying next to someone else? now my trust issues are messed up , I never had a real relationship so now that I'm in one I feel so bad that I ever did that to someone I would never do it again
I used to be fwb with this guy. We had that situationship for about a year or so until I got on Twitter and saw him giving his girlfriend flowers. Brought it up the next time I saw him and he froze up, it was hilarious. I told him he didn't need to explain anything to me, it's gross how he could do that. I was done after that ?
I wasn't his side chick, but before SO and I were together, I was definitely lusting over him while he was in a relationship. They went "on break" (basically not together anymore but him sleeping on the couch) and we still didn't do anything, but I definitely pushed the bounds of what would be acceptable (holding onto his arm, flirty comments, etc). He was too clueless to catch on. Then, they got back together, and I backed off a lot. Then one morning she slapped him numerous times while holding keys, giving him a few gashes. That was the end of that relationship. He crashed at my house, since my parents were out of town. Still didn't catch on when I was cuddling him on the couch while watching movies. We went to a fair together, and I shocked the s*** out of him by kissing him on the Ferris wheel. From then on, he's been stuck with me. ?
Yes, I have not my proudest moment but, in high school my bf cheated on me and left me for this girl. In return..... I f***ked him many times while he was with her, he even told me he'd rather be with me and offered to leave her. I told him no, but at the time I felt so good about doing that to her, like she deserved it. ?
I'm not into competing for a man thats already taken. Hell, I don't compete for men, period. Women are worth so much more than being someone's side piece. Just my opinion, but someone who is willing to be a side chick has serious insecurities and needs to work on themselves. Plus, the heart break, increase in body counts?, and emotional attachment isn't worth it in the end.
I was one of many side chicks to a non-married man. I had no idea until after we slept together that he was heavily involved with another girl in our nursing program, went home with her on the holidays, their families were together, they were dating. But when I asked him if they were together before we started messing around, he said they weren't involved.
My roommate ended up working with her and knew me and this guy were involved, so when she started talking relationship talk with the other girl and found out how involved they were, she let me know. I broke it off with him, called the other girl and let her know everything that was going on and how many other people he told me he was with after confronting him. I honestly felt terrible for her.
I hate to admit this but I was a side chick once upon a time.
When I was 18 a close male friend of mine who I had been in love with for years was finally single and we started dating, I was over the moon about it. About a month or two into the relationship he confessed that he had never actually broken up with his girlfriend and that he was still with her but was actually in love with me. I knew in my heart I should have left him the minute he told me that but after being In love with him for so long and finally being with him I acted like it was no big deal and continued to see him. The relationship lasted another month or so and I hated myself more each day that it went on, I finally woke up to myself and realised he didn't love me and he didn't love her either, he was just an a****** who wanted to have his cake and eat it too. I was disgusted in myself for staying with him and for being the other woman and even months later when I found out from her that she had cheated on him their entire relationship and that she knew about me and him but didn't care it still didn't make me feel any less horrible about what I had done.
Dh and I would flirt at work and went out to eat once before we both left the people we were with. He filed for a divorce (she was in the process of moving out, before we even talked to each other) and I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years because I wasn't happy.
So I guess I was a side chick one time and his girlfriend for a month before his divorce was final.
I'd like to think this would never happen to me....rather I would never allow myself to be in this situation but I have a good friend in that situation and honestly I feel scared for her. Acts like she never saw snapped?
I know this is going to sound bad....? I was a freshman in high school and casually had sex twice with my ex best friend boyfriend, he was originally my boyfriend first in middle school but I was a virgin at the time and didn't have sex with him while together then I broke up with him for someone else. Does that count as a side chick? If not then no.
@serenasmommy Lol! You said you were a side chick, but didn't specify if it was with a married man. So in all fairness I was referring to anyone who sleeps with married men. Sleeping with someone who isn't married and is still taken is pretty bad, but when it comes to marriage I just think that's way over the line.
Technically, I haven't been a side chick to a married man BUT I did steal my best friend's boyfriend. Was not my proudest moment in high school. ? That guy was such a loser too.
Also does role playing that your the side chick count? This is vital information for... A very close friend. ?
Omg... Why do y'all have to bring up the pizza post?! I want little Caesar's now ?
Been a side chick before. I had no idea he was engaged but they separated the time me and him started dating.. Well thanks to Facebook I found out. And the guy still called me on his wedding day (with a different number cause I blocked him after I confronted him) telling me he was obligated to marry her and he can't stop thinking about me.???
I was unfortunately the "side chick". I didn't know I was. I really thought I was the only woman in his life and my whole world came crashing in on me Dec. 7 when I had my first ultrasound and found out later that night that my unborn son's father was in a relationship with another girl for 5 years.
So I guess you can say I'm the pregnant side chick.
Well I just don't see any point in lying about who I am.
Eta but it's OK. Being judged by others is part of life.
Just being honest. I've made bad choices in my life and learned from them. Have you always been so perfect? Teach me your ways.
Okay juicy confession coming. Y'all know my ex cheated and left for his side piece when I was pregnant. Now mind you, she knew about me and she knew he was in a relationship but tried to play the dumb card.
Anyway, she got pregnant by him and I repaid the favor by sleeping with him. Call me petty Betty ?. No I don't want his sorry @ss but we have always had great sexual chemistry and I got caught in a moment.
Edit: Or maybe a few moments ???.
No, I wouldn't want to be the side chick...idk why anyone would want that. One time when I was younger a guy probably at least 10 years older manipulated me and had sex with me..it was technically consensual. I found out he had a gf & now they're engaged. I always wonder if she knows what a sleeze ball she's marrying.
✋ I was a side chick when I was 18. He was 22 and his girl friend was 20. He would literally spend all day with her and as soon as he would drop her off, he would pick me up and we would be together. It was really sad actually. I completely knew she was around and I didn't give a crap. He broke up with her after a couple of months of us fooling around. Then he got a new girl friend and I was still the side chick ?. After about a month of that I stopped it. He is now engaged with the girl, even though he cheated on her, multiple times with me. She has absolutely no idea. Judge all you want. I deserve it. I thought I was so IN LOVE with him. Once he picked another girl over me I was done. Who knows how many other girls there were/are. He's a model and cocky so it probably got to his head.