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Every since I had the twins, I feel so distant towards my husband... I don’t even want to be near him😒

Every since I had the twins, I feel so distant towards my husband... I don’t even want to be near him😒

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mct

MoT

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

If you do talk to him you should take the time to so it without the kids. Get a babysitter. I know that's hard but when my husband and I have trouble, trying to sort it out between meeting the needs of the kids frustraits both people and they eventually decide the conversation is too much and don't finish because they need to meet the kid's needs more in that moment. We all go through this. There are issues on both sides. My husband feels like he loses himself when there is a baby. I become totally involved in everything I have to do for the baby and I forget that our relationship needs stuff too. It's such a balancing act.

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

Yea since the twins been home and my toddler I’ve been focusing on them the most making sure they’re ok

mct

MoT

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I know! When he told me he felt neglected because I wasn't paying enough attention to him I was pissed. I was like grow up I have two kids already I don't need an adult child. After reading some I found out that a lot of couples struggle with this.

momof3qtpies

MOMOF3QTPIES

Мама троих детей

Twins are hard on a marriage. It takes extra work.

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

Definitely seems that way right now

addysmama81715

Brittany F

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

Talk about it with him if you haven’t already, sometimes you just need to communicate with each other how you are feeling.

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

Yea that’s what I was planning to do soon. I just hate when I try to express myself to him, I feel like I’m pointing the finger or attacking him in a way

addysmama81715

Brittany F

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

understandable, when I feel like that I tell him to let me say everything I need to say before it’s his turn to talk lol

itsshalisa

Lisa✨😌

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Girl me and my ex husband split a little after I had my twins. I just felt like he didn’t care for the children he felt as if I should have put him first 🤦🏽‍♀️ I had never felt so distant with him until after their birth so I definitely understand the feeling

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

exactly so I’m that weird wife that texts him when he isn’t home 🤦🏾‍♀️

itsshalisa

Lisa✨😌

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’m like that too most times just to avoid conflict 🤦🏽‍♀️

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

exactly don’t wanna start nothing and make a big problem

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?