A really long RANT!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬!! What would y’all do????

I don’t think it’s fair that you would have to keep things to yourself either. I know it’s better to just avoid unpleasant conversations. But mom is mom, & I honestly still say what I plan on doing & of course my MIL will always have something to say, but it does bring me peace that she has no control over me. My husband is a total mommas boy, but I put my foot down along time ago that above everyone else & even above him, I’m the only one who’ll ever have the last say on my girls. I say what I have to say, & I won’t argue I’ll just respectfully ignore her point blank.

She already doesn’t like me, i don’t need nor care for validation from her. She can speak her opinions & advice, but just don’t talk bad to me & we can respectfully just sit in the same room without the unnecessary tension.

And I bet she wouldn’t think twice if it was little girls wearing blue. 🙄.

I can’t stand this backwards way of thinking.

People can, and should wear whatever they want.

Overstepping much??!! Wow! You're husband needs to not just go along with his mother and grow a freaking backbone! Even if he agrees with her, he should not put you out like that. I would seriously have a sit down and tell him you are team and when there are disagreements you handle those without everyone else around. If he can't say anything to his mother he can at least say "she's fine mom". 😒

I don’t think it’s fair that you would have to keep things to yourself either. I know it’s better to just avoid unpleasant conversations. But mom is mom, & I honestly still say what I plan on doing & of course my MIL will always have something to say, but it does bring me peace that she has no control over me. My husband is a total mommas boy, but I put my foot down along time ago that above everyone else & even above him, I’m the only one who’ll ever have the last say on my girls. I say what I have to say, & I won’t argue I’ll just respectfully ignore her point blank.

She already doesn’t like me, i don’t need nor care for validation from her. She can speak her opinions & advice, but just don’t talk bad to me & we can respectfully just sit in the same room without the unnecessary tension.

I seriously thought PINK was passsssss that boys can wear it too. ! 🤦🏻‍♀️ boys look cute in pink! & I would just not talk to her about the shit I wanna do , or have in my mind . Because obviously she don’t know wtf she’s saying. & haha stay off Facebook, 🤦🏻‍♀️ what your 10 be told to get off social media ... IGNORE HER & NOW YOU KNOW YOU CAN’T HAVE A DECENT CONVERSATION With your in-laws !

You’re a grown woman, why would she ask to take you off of Facebook like you’re grounded or something. MIL’S! They’re so difficult sometimes.

& I think pink for boys is great! It may be a girl color & not all males (my husband can’t, the color grays him out) ((my brothers can & they look so freaking handsome)) can wear the color, but it’s your boys & your decision.

My mil is the same way when it comes gender stuff. I just ignore it and keep doing whatever the hell I feel

My 8 he old had this pink shirt when he was smaller and it looked good on him. It's just a color.

Next time she has in blur or green be like oh I love your boy shirt it looks nice.

Sounds like your married a momma' s boy. My 1st husband was and we lasted alittle over 2 yrs. I couldn't deal with the shit anymore.

Would your husband actually try to take your FB away?? 👀

I’d still personally go with pink shirts if you want to, they’re YOUR kids not hers. Plus there’s definitely nothing wrong with it.

My husband wore a pink polo for our first baby shower? & he’s a grown man.

I see no problem. She deserves a slap, specially after the Facebook remark. 🙄

“That’s okay, your opinion doesn’t matter in the end anyways.”

I was stuck at her asking her son to take YOUR facebook away. TF. This is 2019 ma'am!

I was slightly wrong

My FIL is ignorant in the same ways as your MIL

I once read that pink used to be considered a strong masculine color and blue a feminine color.. but then that whole thing changed when WW2 happened and Hitler would label women with pink and men with blue. Idk how true that is but I thought it was interesting.

She sounds like a moron. I'd tell her to keep her opinions to herself.

And I bet she wouldn’t think twice if it was little girls wearing blue. 🙄.

I can’t stand this backwards way of thinking.

People can, and should wear whatever they want.

Take Facebook away? Wtf. Besides all the other dumb shit she said, she clearly has a skewed idea of how marriage works.