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cutiepatootie
Honey·Мама дочки (6 лет)

I would like some opinions... me & my child’s father are at odds right now because I posted a picture of our daughter on Facebook and he didn’t want me to... I feel that I should be able to show my pride & joy also give relatives and friends who are miles away a chance to see her... he doesn’t have a Facebook or any social media and thinks it’s all stupid so now he’s mad

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jmedina
Jana ·Мама троих детей

Idk my husband hardly every post things but will tag himself on my pictures sometimes. If he told me to stop I wouldn't, it's my Facebook and I have only close friends and family and like to share my life with them. Not saying it's this at all but the only time I have seen a man getting mad about that is because he didn't want other women to know he had a baby.

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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

Maybe compromise? I made a private group on my Facebook. It’s invite only and only I can add people. I know who is seeing the pictures.

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sweetsap

I actually feel the same way as your child's father. How I see it, it's not about those far away and don't get a chance to see her, it's the predators online, honestly.

I send pictures to people who want to see the baby, it's more controlled that way.

I don't have another social media account other than this, and the SO isn't allowed to put the baby on fb, instagram or twitter 🤷🏾‍♀️

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scruffy.nerf.herder
Heather·Мама подростка

Yes, so agree! Once a pic is on social media, it’s out there forever, accessible to any creep or sicko. Why expose your innocent child to a risk like this? You can always text or email pics to faraway family.

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familygrown
Catherine Straley·Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)

I gave up social media because my husband felt the same way- now he wants his facebook back and I'm pist about it

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

My husband requested we not post any photos of our kids faces on fb. I didnt see an issue with it. He's their parent too though. Ultimately I decided it was best to respect his wishes. I share in other manners. It's not worth causing stress and tension in a relationship, its Facebook ffs. Now that I've been open minded to it, I agree with him. Our kids deserve the right to not have their lives documented on fb.

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cbpink80
cristy·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

I'm barely on Facebook... I'm not a fan like I use to be.. and I still post important land marks for my friends and family just so there not in the dark.. not talking about a nude picture here lol

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cutiepatootie
Honey·Мама дочки (6 лет)

😂😂 and that’s all it’s really for... I don’t usually put any locations and if I do it’s long after I’ve gone or something

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cutiepatootie
Honey·Мама дочки (6 лет)

I don’t see the issue nor has he gave me a valid reason other than that he doesn’t like it and that’s simply not good enough for me... a simple picture of our baby girl, fully clothed in pajamas, no location, just a picture of our most recent blessing for people to see and congratulate us on... there’s absolutely no harm in that

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mamabear_betonme

If he doesn't have a valid reason, I understand. Also, you are not posting any personal identifiers or locations...great.To each his own. I choose not to post pics of my children on social media for a number of reasons.

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cutiepatootie
Honey·Мама дочки (6 лет)

@mamabear_betonme, Yes because I asked...and his response was because I don’t like it and I said ok well I do... 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I left it at that. 😂

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sweetsap

Even though you don't post a location, people will always know your location. Unless you have a really good vpn bouncing signal continuously

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mamabear_betonme

I think both of you should be open to compromise. Will you be willing to share pictures of your daughter in a private message instead to your family and friends? I am not a fan of posting children's pictures on social media as well, so it's easier for me to understand his viewpoint.

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cbpink80
cristy·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Your not wrong for that.. Your not mad at him for not having one so he shouldnt be mad at you for having one.. he needs to meet you half way. Y'all are both the parents.

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cutiepatootie
Honey·Мама дочки (6 лет)

Exactly! 🤷🏽‍♀️ definitely don’t see anything wrong it.

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