I would like some opinions... me & my child’s father are at odds right now because I posted a picture of our daughter on Facebook and he didn’t want me to... I feel that I should be able to show my pride & joy also give relatives and friends who are miles away a chance to see her... he doesn’t have a Facebook or any social media and thinks it’s all stupid so now he’s mad
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
cristy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)
Your not wrong for that.. Your not mad at him for not having one so he shouldnt be mad at you for having one.. he needs to meet you half way. Y'all are both the parents.
Honey··
Мама дочки-младенца
Exactly! 🤷🏽♀️ definitely don’t see anything wrong it.
That Mom·
I think both of you should be open to compromise. Will you be willing to share pictures of your daughter in a private message instead to your family and friends? I am not a fan of posting children's pictures on social media as well, so it's easier for me to understand his viewpoint.
Honey·
Мама дочки-младенца
I don’t see the issue nor has he gave me a valid reason other than that he doesn’t like it and that’s simply not good enough for me... a simple picture of our baby girl, fully clothed in pajamas, no location, just a picture of our most recent blessing for people to see and congratulate us on... there’s absolutely no harm in that
That Mom··
If he doesn't have a valid reason, I understand. Also, you are not posting any personal identifiers or locations...great.To each his own. I choose not to post pics of my children on social media for a number of reasons.
Honey··
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes because I asked...and his response was because I don’t like it and I said ok well I do... 🤷🏽♀️ and I left it at that. 😂
sweetsap··
Even though you don't post a location, people will always know your location. Unless you have a really good vpn bouncing signal continuously
cristy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)
I'm barely on Facebook... I'm not a fan like I use to be.. and I still post important land marks for my friends and family just so there not in the dark.. not talking about a nude picture here lol
Honey··
Мама дочки-младенца
😂😂 and that’s all it’s really for... I don’t usually put any locations and if I do it’s long after I’ve gone or something
Lanie Jay·
My husband requested we not post any photos of our kids faces on fb. I didnt see an issue with it. He's their parent too though. Ultimately I decided it was best to respect his wishes. I share in other manners. It's not worth causing stress and tension in a relationship, its Facebook ffs. Now that I've been open minded to it, I agree with him. Our kids deserve the right to not have their lives documented on fb.
Catherine Straley·
Мама сына (1 год)
I gave up social media because my husband felt the same way- now he wants his facebook back and I'm pist about it
sweetsap·
I actually feel the same way as your child's father. How I see it, it's not about those far away and don't get a chance to see her, it's the predators online, honestly.
I send pictures to people who want to see the baby, it's more controlled that way.
I don't have another social media account other than this, and the SO isn't allowed to put the baby on fb, instagram or twitter 🤷🏾♀️
Heather··
Мама сына (7 лет)
Yes, so agree! Once a pic is on social media, it’s out there forever, accessible to any creep or sicko. Why expose your innocent child to a risk like this? You can always text or email pics to faraway family.
Thisisfeeney·
Maybe compromise? I made a private group on my Facebook. It’s invite only and only I can add people. I know who is seeing the pictures.
Jana ·
Idk my husband hardly every post things but will tag himself on my pictures sometimes. If he told me to stop I wouldn't, it's my Facebook and I have only close friends and family and like to share my life with them. Not saying it's this at all but the only time I have seen a man getting mad about that is because he didn't want other women to know he had a baby.