Vent: why does my family say they are here for me but whenever I ask for help I get a long story on how they can’t help or how I should ask someone else. This is why I don’t ask anyone for help
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
So ladies let me ask this question how many of you guys took the proper steps to ensure safety and got tested for herpies and well as none normal test for Sti and stds if so or if not why or why not
I had some woman on here follow me then asked if we could talk. asked how far along I was, I told her then asked what kind of phone I had I told her asked why then she asked for my number.... I told her as nicely as I could that "I don't know you, so no" it was weird and creepy! I don't mind talking to people on here but just to be so forward like that has me suspicious of her intentions. Am I being to paranoid or would you do the same?! lol...
Ladies why do men ask how many men we been with ? Do you answer this question? If so how
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)
Never entirely rely on others besides yourself. I kind of got into that mentality since i’m an only child. Grew up far from other family members and my mom and i didnt have the best relationship. I actually struggle asking for any help and will only do so when im really cornered in. Which i do my best to not put myself in that situation.
People will say “ I’m here for you “ Sometimes they only say it because it is a nice gesture but only few really mean it. And some of those might want to really help but due to what is going on with their lives they cant 🤷🏻♀️
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)
@momof5brats, Awww, it is the worst when youre feeling under the weather and you got ish to do. Did you end up finding a ride?
Lydia Duran··
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
no I ended up rescheduling her appointment for tomorrow. Hopefully I am feeling better
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)
Rest well mamas. And hope you feel better by tomorrow.