Ladies why do men ask how many men we been with ? Do you answer this question? If so how
Ew. Don’t answer. That’s way tacky. No one needs to know the body count.
Small town gossip is an issue around here, everyone thinks they know eveeyones sex life. I mean I've heard some crazy shit about me, so I find this being a topic well, for just conversation alot of the time.
My husband never asked, however we talked about it when we first got together. It was no biggie. Now if this would have been his question in the beginning I would have found it super shady.
Yeah he never ask that I remember but I guess by me no answering I’m getting the slient treatment
Yup. Actually I've only had one guy ask me that, the one I married. Funny thing is he did not give me a straight answer when I asked him. It's ok though I did not tell him my real number lol
My husband knows how many I’ve been with but I’ve literally only been with one person other then him, and he has never given me an exact number and honestly I don’t even want to know 😂 I agree sometimes it causes issues when you give a number, is there a specific reason he is asking?
What did your husband say when you said one and it’s basically sex experience
@ai.ariel, not much really, I feel like if I would of said more then 1 it would of been a whole damn conversation 🤣
My husband has never asked, not in 22 years of being a together. That's just looking for trouble.
@ai.ariel I kinda think so. Like if you say the wrong number and he thinks it's too high, he's going to be upset or feel like he probably can't keep up with the skills if others. I just think it could work itself over and over again in a person's mind. I have sometimes wondered how many relarionships and partners my husband has had, but never asked. At the end of the day it doesn't matter really.
Same in the 6 years we’ve been together my husband has never been this childish to ask such a ridiculous thing that a huge red flag if you ask me I’d be out not to mention what you did before with anyone prior has nothing to do with the present and should be of no concern to him unless he’s immature and insecure
@jenx, exactly I think we should worry about now and not the past but one thing I learn some ppl would take what you say and bring it back in arguments
Men don’t ask, only boys do lol. That’s a red flag for me when a guy wants to know what your body count is.
@latinamomof3, lol thank you made me feel better and he just wanted to know so random
@ai.ariel, maybe he is trying to see if you are sleeping around if your numbers go up. Make himself feel better if he is the one sleeping around. That just my guess I could be wrong.
@latinamomof3, maybe so but I think is more about sex
Such a tacky thing to ask. I mean my husband and I have shared a few of our past experiences with each other but never a specific number😬
I don't think anyone I've seriously dated asked me that before. They are either nosey, immature or insecure. My husband never even ask but jokes around like..."you had a kid so I KNOW you've been with one person and that's all I like to think but I know you went to SDSU & loved football players,bballers & Hennessy so there's that" 🤣 and I say don't forgot the surfers I had a variety of flavors 😉😂

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Ew. Don’t answer. That’s way tacky. No one needs to know the body count.