I was so disgusted today. I went to take my son for his 9 month shots , and there’s a younger mom (when she said her DOB It was 2000 so 18ish ) with a 5 day old . And she had a social worker or case worker with her (my county offers a lot of help for moms and from the way it looked she lived in one of the homeless shelters for young moms and they take care of you and your child pretty much but you need a job or to apply for tanf and pay them a percentage monthly and do chores etc .) well . This woman had no money for her copay and had the case worker pay . When the case worker said you need to start putting money aside we can’t keep paying for everything , she got an attitude . The case worker was showing her how to adjust the straps on the car seat cause they were loose and showing her how to test it and such and she was just on her phone like okay I see yeah okay. And this child was in a short sleeve shirt . No socks , no hat, and no blanket . When the case worker said something about that, she again was paying attention to the phone saying okay yeah my bad I’ll remember next time . Baby starts crying , this girl rolled her eyes and started complaining “you’re so annoying why you always gotta cry for cAlm down “ as she FINALLY puts her phone down. I was so annoyed . I wanted to just take that baby 😭😭😭 this is why us young mothers get bad names . From people like that. If you can’t put your phone down and love your child, don’t have one .
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Very sad I was a teen mom at 16 i am 39 now and I graduated hs early had 2 jobs and No One handed me shit I worked hard for all I have and had my own place.Yes your story you wrote turns my stomach being a mom is 24-7 And your child needs to be your #1 priority. NOT every woman is meant to be motherly or nurturing..so if your a young mom doing your best I am proud of you
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I became at mom for the first time when I was 19. I had no clue what I was doing, but I learned and I gave my daughter the best life I could. This is such a shame to hear.
Ugh so many red flags right here. If she’s annoyed by the little cry (probably cold) then imagine if the baby had colic or teething and doesn’t stop for a while. I pray that baby stays safe & finds a loving home
Exactly !! My nephew had colic and it was literally non stop!! We took him for a week (he was 6 months at the time and my son was 3, were actually on our way to his first bday party lol) but we took him for a week to give them a break and it was awful. Non stop literally . I couldnt imagine if her baby was like that.
Poor baby. Eventually Cps will take the child away if she doesn't get her act together. It clearly seems like she doesn't want the child. :( I feel bad for that child.
That's sad. When I was 18 I was all about myself. I know personally I wouldn't have been a good teen mom. Some really do try but I don't think at 14 or 15 you should be having any and if it does happen for too take responsibility. My dad and mom were 16 and 17. My dad still graduated worked and paid everything. They took the responsibility.
My mom was a teen mom. She is incredible to this day. She currently has custody of my 5yo nephew. I had friends in high school that were teen moms and were all amazing also. I see moms in all age groups that can be crappy moms.
Of course ! But people give young moms bad names like that cause of people who treat their baby’s so bad !
I hope there going to keep a eye on her! That would have pissed me off if I had seen that!
It made me so upset . She had some kind of worker with her so I’m sure she won’t have that child in her care for long but jeez 😭😭
@momsrmagical, yeah some people need that help. Weather little or big . And that’s okay!
I wish I could give that baby some love 😔 even at a young age, a baby is a blessing and it kills me to see some moms treating their own kids like a mere inconvenience. I know a girl who has 2 kids at age 20 and the way she treats her kids sickens me. These girls really do give us all a bad name
Exactly !!! My best friend was 15 when she got pregnant and she does SO freaking well with her son. Like when I think of young moms she’s what I see . Then I go out and see trashy girls like this . Please just love your babies 😭😭😭😭
Very sad I was a teen mom at 16 i am 39 now and I graduated hs early had 2 jobs and No One handed me shit I worked hard for all I have and had my own place.Yes your story you wrote turns my stomach being a mom is 24-7 And your child needs to be your #1 priority. NOT every woman is meant to be motherly or nurturing..so if your a young mom doing your best I am proud of you
@briannalynn547 I also hate seeing mom's grab their baby who barely walks by 1 arm too :/ how about we do that to them see if they like it..
@sherrynygirl, people don’t think/care how these babies feel. They don’t realize just cause it doesn’t hurt you doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt them
Smh. Some people just don't deserve to have kids.
I had my first kid at 17 and my daughter always came first. I always made sure she was bundled up etc.
I had my son at 20. This wasn’t to bash young moms , just young moms like that give us all such bad names I cant stand it !! Just love your babies 😭😭😭
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Smh. Some people just don't deserve to have kids.
I had my first kid at 17 and my daughter always came first. I always made sure she was bundled up etc.