I was so disgusted today. I went to take my son for his 9 month shots , and there’s a younger mom (when she said her DOB…
I was so disgusted today. I went to take my son for his 9 month shots , and there’s a younger mom (when she said her DOB It was 2000 so 18ish ) with a 5 day old . And she had a social worker or case worker with her (my county offers a lot of help for moms and from the way it looked she lived in one of the homeless shelters for young moms and they take care of you and your child pretty much but you need a job or to apply for tanf and pay them a percentage monthly and do chores etc .) well . This woman had no money for her copay and had the case worker pay . When the case worker said you need to start putting money aside we can’t keep paying for everything , she got an attitude . The case worker was showing her how to adjust the straps on the car seat cause they were loose and showing her how to test it and such and she was just on her phone like okay I see yeah okay. And this child was in a short sleeve shirt . No socks , no hat, and no blanket . When the case worker said something about that, she again was paying attention to the phone saying okay yeah my bad I’ll remember next time . Baby starts crying , this girl rolled her eyes and started complaining “you’re so annoying why you always gotta cry for cAlm down “ as she FINALLY puts her phone down. I was so annoyed . I wanted to just take that baby 😭😭😭 this is why us young mothers get bad names . From people like that. If you can’t put your phone down and love your child, don’t have one .
Rubiaxo·
Smh. Some people just don't deserve to have kids.
I had my first kid at 17 and my daughter always came first. I always made sure she was bundled up etc.
Brianna Montgomery ··
I had my son at 20. This wasn’t to bash young moms , just young moms like that give us all such bad names I cant stand it !! Just love your babies 😭😭😭
Rubiaxo··
and I agree with you on that 💯
sherry S·
Very sad I was a teen mom at 16 i am 39 now and I graduated hs early had 2 jobs and No One handed me shit I worked hard for all I have and had my own place.Yes your story you wrote turns my stomach being a mom is 24-7 And your child needs to be your #1 priority. NOT every woman is meant to be motherly or nurturing..so if your a young mom doing your best I am proud of you
Brianna Montgomery ··
Good for you girl ! None of this was to bash young moms . I was 20 when I had my son! 19 when I got pregnant and I had two misscariages at 15 and 19. I was just saying young moms like that are what make the others look bad and it makes me so angry. Tired of little girls having babies to keep a man or have a family and when that man leaves they don’t want nothing to do with it . Or when the babies here it’s “to hard” what did they expect 😭😭😭
sherry S··
I like your story you wrote
sherry S··
I also hate seeing mom's grab their baby who barely walks by 1 arm too :/ how about we do that to them see if they like it..
Brianna Montgomery ··
people don’t think/care how these babies feel. They don’t realize just cause it doesn’t hurt you doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt them