Do you ladies think it’s okay to look in your mans phone sometimes?
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@joyfulmom2b, it does not sound stupid... I COMPLETELY understand you!💙 but you are wasting your energy on the wrong person though... I am sure of it and I think you are too. Look at your username “joyfulmom” don’t let some asshole make you feel otherwise😘 self love is the best love💙
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I don't think it's ok but I do it anyway. 🤷🏽♀️
@joyfulmom2b, it does not sound stupid... I COMPLETELY understand you!💙 but you are wasting your energy on the wrong person though... I am sure of it and I think you are too. Look at your username “joyfulmom” don’t let some asshole make you feel otherwise😘 self love is the best love💙
@superchilledmom, yeah sounds exactly like my situation, it’s just so crappy. I know it sounds silly, but I have the hardest time in the world giving up on someone specially bc I put all my energy into that one person, I don’t keep pple close. I do this to myself and it sucks honestly but I shouldn’t be treated like this u r right. And thank you for all that and ur support
Ugh🙄 some “men” 🤦🏻♀️ or shall we call them “boys” cuz that’s how boys act!!! The disrespect is real!!! Look mama, I know it is VERY hurtful (speaking from experience) and you might feel like you will never get over him or be happy with someone else. But let me tell you something... my child’s father - who I am no longer with- thank God!!! Fr used to do the same shit to me pregnant & not pregnant... he too was nice once, then got comfortable, started showing me his true colors, and treated me like crap. At the moment, I felt like I would never be happy with someone else or that I would never get over him. The day I left him though!! I felt SOOOOOOOOOO relieved... I realized that my son & I deserved 10x better!!!! Know your worth babygirl. And TRUST ME, easier said than done but also TRUST ME when I tell you, this will pass!!! Now I legit look at baby daddy -who I was once “in love” with- like ewwwww lmao cuz I now know he is trash🤷🏻♀️and I am doing SOOOOO much better without him. He is not the one for you. the one for you would treat you kind, with respect and would NOT cheat on you! You are beautiful💙 don’t let ANYONE steal your joy! YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY! It makes you stronger!!! And your kid will notice all your hard work💪🏼 you deserve the absolute best from a man! Nothing less!!
@fuhgeddaboudit, I most certainly agree.. he doesn’t deserve it at all by any means
@fuhgeddaboudit, oh he knows I know now. And he’s told me to msg her which I said oh believe me I am, but I’m not a idiot and I know you entertained her more and more. U both behaved like scumbags and I won’t ever forget that. He had the audacity to say I should delete my fb post abt my life getting worse and worse but how grateful and how much I love my son making it worth it. And my response to him was oh yeah?! Maybe u should have deleted the bitches who hit u up talking like that! Like I do with the dudes that HMU, gtfo
@ambrerumph1440, yup he’s done it a few times, honestly don’t know what to say though besides being like your a straight hoe, how u going to try to sleep with a man having a baby in less then a month smh idk grr 🤬😤🤯
@msbrinkley11, that’s how I feel things should be completely, honestly envy that u have that, and happy for you. All women and people who say they love someone should be able to be open; it’s the only way I see a healthy relationship maintaining
@joyfulmom2b yea they do. But it's up to u if u r going to put up with it or not. If u gonna keep putting up with it, it's no point of looking bc he heard u the first time.
@sheenese17, I feel like that’s even more hurtful bc then he’s deceiving and hiding more. It annoys me he can jump down my throat for the most ridiculous things but yet somehow try to justify his actions as ok?! 🤦♀️ men suck!
@sunflowerfields, he could look into my phone all he wants there is absolutely nothing out of line. I’ve been busy building what I thought was a family, instead of being deceived. But thank you and yeah that’s what really gets me they freaking talked abt it! And she has a kid also like what women has goals to be the other woman?! Grow the fuck up! I appreciate that a lot ty
@joyfulmom2b I would definitely let her know you know and I doubt he will try and do custody he using that cause he know that will make you scared to leave
@ambrerumph1440, @fuhgeddaboudit, I just don’t wanna put myself in the position that he could make me look like I’m the impulsive, crazy person in the relationship bc god forbid he tries to get custody or something behind my back. I’m going to look like a adult to his childish BS and I have the proof of it all. But this girl needs to know I know, and I’m thinking how I should handle her
Ugh I just read the comments that's is the worse thing someone can do to a person is hurt them and betray their trust, I hope you get better love and hopefully have a plan for what you're going to do next ❤
We both go through each other phones just cause 😂😂😂 we are both nosey. We dont do it cause oh we suspect something nope, we know we're not gonna find anything because we dont have time fo be wasting each other's time nor do we wanna hurt each other. We've been through too much in our prior relationships to go through some bs all over again
@joyfulmom2b, there are places for mothers to go with their kids when they have nowhere to go...contact a catholic church and ask for help for mothers etc... there are some that give the mother and her child place to live help them get a job and get up on their own feet. dont stay just because you feel like you are trapped...cut him out of your life , you deserve to be loved.
I dont want to see anything I wanted to see, if that make sense. If hes doing anything it will come out the dark...
@joyfulmom2b, This hurts me for you. I will say this, looking in a phone can be tricky. I’ve found out things and my boyfriend have found out things about me, no one is perfect but when it comes to having sex with another person and you’re built a family with this person. It’s not right by any means, it’s something that’ll be hard to forgive. They are both gross especially her knowing he has a woman with a child on the way. It’s up to you to do what you feel is right. I wish you peace of mind and real love from a significant other in your life. Everyone deserves better 🌻
@fuhgeddaboudit right cause I am not playing around o my husband know he ain't he gotta cheat he can conversate I'm running down on the bitch and his ass getting it to real shit ion fuck around
@fuhgeddaboudit o I did that's why I just stopped scrolling cause you gotta have a game plan for some trashy mf like that I couldn't write about it I'll be downtown smiling on my damn mug shot it made me mad just by looking at the shit i had to remove myself I'll be killing shit Frfr
Honestly I wouldn't it's only going to hurt worse literally it's all gonna come out and work out for you I used to go thru mine but I had to think what's this gonna prove ima be the only one mad
So sorry you're going through a hard time. If you're planning to leave I would start making up a plan. Little by little start taking stuff to your parent's house(or a friends house), try saving money, and try staying calm around your boyfriend. Once your ready to leave confront him have your baby with someone you trust then leave. Good luck! Stay strong! Stay safe!
@joyfulmom2b, Do it whenever you’re comfortable but remember you deserve so much better then this, don’t let him continue to hurt you and disrespect you because he is a disgusting creep who deserves to live alone the rest of his days, you should get some sleep before doing anything so that way you have time to think about what you’re going to say and that way you will be fully rested so you are in your right mind set because not having sleep can make you real tired and make you say the wrong things so I’d get some rest and think and then do it because he is a jerk and needs to know you know
If he's cheating I would run for the hills honestly. I use my husband's phone all the time to play games or for directions when we're going somewhere, etc. You shouldn't have to sneak around to look at your man's phone.
@fuhgeddaboudit, @amberjacq, I feel stupid and pathetic about this situation and I didn’t even do anything wrong
@fuhgeddaboudit, yeah she definitely seems like a actual slut to the fullest extent, I don’t believe she has a bf, but at the same time she talked abt how her old bf caused problems for her and my bf. And kinda talked about how they had a thing and she loves him.
🤯🤯🤬 I’m disgusted rn!
And that is true, and I’d definitely need some kinda assistance I have absolutely no money at all
@amberjacq, same here I got one friend and she’s back in my town 😢 and thank you again, I’m on this app everyday, I wouldn’t be sane throughout pregnancy without it at this point. Smh 🤦♀️
And yeah she does, she’s enabled him a lot with mistakes but yet he talked so much shit about her being a shittie mom and not doing anything for her lol ridiculous!
I’ve been thinking about saying something about this today even though I haven’t slept at all, but now I’m kinda questioning it bc my babies birth certificate is being mailed here within the next two weeks. Ugh I just don’t know what to do!
@joyfulmom2b, You’re welcome and I know how that feels I don’t have but only one friend and she lives in another area so we don’t see each other a lot, and I haven’t got many people to talk to so I understand completely but I’m always here if you need to talk I get on this app almost everyday, and if his mother babies him ugh that lady need to get her head checked because obviously she doesn’t know how to raise children because you don’t baby a person for cheating on his pregnant girlfriend and you didn’t deserve any of this you need a real man who will love and support you and your son without throwing it up in your face
@amberjacq, i truly hate him for letting me and Bennett down. I’ve done nothing but support this kid and he’s done nothing but hurt me and hold money over my head. I’ve tried to much for a pos again. And thank you probly take you up on that bc I do appreciate the hell out of ur support rn. I feel like I got no one to vent or even tlk to anymore. I’m alone out here with this jerkoff. I’m even tempted to tell his mom even though she probly baby his ass still. He’s fucked my life up and our future; screw him. I don’t wanna be petty but it’s the truth. I didn’t deserve this at all.
But men aren’t what they use to be anymore.. most are boys disguised as men.. it really sucks; women deal with to much bs in the first place
@joyfulmom2b, Yes hun do what’s best for you and your son don’t let him disrespect you and get away with it! Don’t let him teach your son his awful way because that is now how men should be! Men should be faithful and caring towards their pregnant girlfriends and wives! And you’re welcome I’m here anytime you need to talk hun!
@amberjacq, thank you for all that, u give me hope and make me feel like I can be strong against tlking to him and telling him I know what he did and that I’ve given him so many chances n now he’s finally completely ruined everything and one day he’ll realized what he threw away for what living in his moment being selfish and a liar. Idk I need to step away from him, he’s done something that will never be forgiven. And I cannot let my son grow up to be poisoned by his shittie behavior, no man should treat women like this specially during pregnancy WTF
Don’t let one man get your down when there are plenty of other men out there who would love to have you as a girlfriend and maybe even a wife one day
@joyfulmom2b, If they think you’re stupid for leaving an emotionally abusive idiot then you need new family, this is obviously not your fault it’s his for destroying your family, and yeah they do men are hard work, and I wish things were different for you and your son too but it’s not neither of yours faults at all it’s his for being such an a**
@lovemyson16, that’s what I’m saying and somehow he gets me feeling badly, that’s manipulation the shit he’s done. But u nailed that perfectly and thank you for ur support rn. Never in my wildest dreams thought my child’s father would behave so poorly! I really do wish I can find someone worth putting all this energy into at some point.
@amberjacq, sorry son needed diaper change and feeding. And my family is a hr and 30 mins away and I know will think I’m stupid for leaving him, they are kinda sexist and always think shit is my fault. And I’m sorry to hear, men really suck at understanding it’s ridiculous so stubborn and selfish really. I hope things work out for u 💕 and honestly I am thinking abt doing that she and him both deserve to be called out on acting like scumbags! I really do need a good man in my life anymore, I wish my son Bennett didn’t have a father that could do shit like this! I’m most definitely raising him better!
@joyfulmom2b. Selfish for taking his kid away? He's selfish for cheating on a loyal ass woman and wanting to break his family up like that!!! It's him being selfish and his decisions that cause all of this! Run far away. Seriously. Your choice if you want him to see the child, that's if he's even a good dad idk but I say just let him do what he has to do in court lol. Fuck him. Don't read into those mind games.. Your beautiful. Any man will be lucky to have you, cherish you and love to take care of your child just like their own!! There's good men out there. I haven't found one yet lol but I'm not searching either lol. But they're out there somewhere. It hurts right now but eventually You'll be alright love. You'll see he just wasn't the man God had for you. Wish you the best..
@lovemyson16, u are right, I need to not let him keep destroying me. He tries to fuck with me and say that I’m being selfish taking his kid away, but doesn’t give a shit what he was doing when I was pregnant and how that could affect my pregnancy and the baby. He’s played his mind games
@joyfulmom2b, I know how hard that is, do you have family nearby? That’s what everyone wants and deserves, I would, pay backs a b*tch but that’s just cause I’m in a bad mood right now, yeah he is a good man but he sucks at understanding that’s what we’ve pretty much been arguing about all day but I talked to him about it, and he’s working on it, and I’m working on things too but trust me our marriage is far from perfect, today I felt like completely giving up but you can’t do that in marriage, and I hope you find a great guy who is ready for a family because one day that man will come along and love you and your son
So sorry. Pregnancy centers will help you with anything you need for baby. Churches will help also. May even help you with finding somewhere to go. Please don't stay in this toxic relationship. Someone who loves you wouldn't treat you like shit. You deserve better honey.
@amberjacq, sounds like u got a good man, everyone around here acts like this, it’s ridiculous. I’m tired of it, I just want a normal life and a normal guy and can’t seem to win at all with any of it
@amberjacq, I’m trying to feel that way, all I ever ever wanted was a family of my own with someone I truly loved.. I don’t even have a forreal place to go, and ways to make sure my baby is taken care of completely, like diapers and shit I have nothing. Except what we got here currently. I can’t believe he would disrespect me so badly.
I’m honestly tempted to msg her ex and say wtf she’s doing and tag her on his Facebook calling her out for sleeping with a man that’s in a relationship and a baby on the way and knowing it
@joyfulmom2b, Ew that’s disgusting why would he want someone who acts like that? My husband can’t stand girls who act like guys he says they’re nasty 😷
@amberjacq, bc the hoes around here behave like dudes and they love it
@dontspankme, it hurts me he’s okay not being with me.. like him not caring when I was pregnant and acting a fool throughout.. like the thought and knowing all this crippled me
Girl you are worth so much more! You deserve a man not some little boy who is gonna go sleep with some Snapchat whore in a trashy “condo”. He is a disgusting fool and he will regret this the rest of his pathetic life.
I would just love to beat the h*ll out of him with a base ball bat maybe it would knock some sense into his stupid a** because I’ve been cheated on too and it really sucks especially when you completely trusted that person
@joyfulmom2b, I know you are hurt but you are stronger than you think you are. You are a mother now. In time hun the hurt will go away and you will thank the heavens that you aren’t with him anymore.
🤮 Disgusting piece of sh*t, why the h*ll is she talking like a guy for? Ugh that’s nasty 🤢
@joyfulmom2b, you are and you know it. Or how about don’t send him screenshots since he would be pissed to know you saw all of that. Just leave girl. Run far away. Don’t give him an explanation. Whenever he wants to see his son is fine but a relationship with you, never again.
@dontspankme, like I don’t even know what to say, I’m mad but almost get feel like I’m broken down to the point of feeling nothing.. but still hurts beyond anything
@dontspankme, it gets so much worse, I feel like I’m dating a complete scumbag
@joyfulmom2b, if I was you I would take my son and leave without saying a word. Text him the screenshots later on then file for custody. No petty fighting or dirty looks. Fuck him!
@joyfulmom2b, That’s disgusting, probably carrying some kinda disease now
@dontspankme, yeah and I didn’t put up with my ex doing it! I didn’t fucking know! But read my last comment to Amberjacq I forgot to tag you
@amberjacq, lmao I love you rn. I just took pics of most of it. They both talked abt keeping it on the down low and how he would get her a expensive ass room, and they both shared abunch of nudes and how he wants to fuck her everywhere before his kid is here 😭🤬 like that is the most scumbag shit ever, he really told her he has a girl and a baby on the way WTF I’m completely speechless; I’m drinking my first beer in forever, and frankly about to take his money and get cigs and a 6 pack in the morning fuck this dude
@bellylove44, at this point I’m glad I did, they are tlking abt keeping it in the down low, told her he has a girl and wants to fuck her before his kid is here and about buying a expensive room for her and straight wants to fuck her all the tine
@joyfulmom2b, so because you put up with it with your ex means you have to for him?! No! What kind of relationship is that? I think even if you gave him a second chance he will not change because he has you wrapped around his finger. Get help from family and friends to get out of there. Know your self worth!
Next time he asks you why you’re giving him evil looks you should say “Ask your Snapchat whore maybe she’ll know”
@joyfulmom2b, I bet she looks like a rattle snake because only snakes play around with men with another woman with a baby on the way!
What an a**hole, him: *knows it’s wrong but does it anyways* what amazing f**king logic 🤦🏻♀️ and I wouldn’t either and it became “real” serious it was real when you were pregnant so why didn’t he stop to realize this then it could of saved him the extreme embarrassment he is going to have to face when you tell his mother what a sh*thole he is, and that was a year ago he needs to let it go! He is such a tool for even saying crap like that you need to call him out on it!
I don't think it's ok to snoop but if you are on his phone and see something that is difficult
@amberjacq, she’s really pretty 😒 shit hurts as if I’m not insecure enough rn and when I’m depressed.
@amberjacq, I completely understand why it would! Like I’ve had convos with him abt men who cheat on their pregnant gfs; like I can’t wrap my head around him doing this rn. And today he said it all became real for him when our son Bennett was born and I told him I was trying to make him understand that during the pregnancy. Like he’s been so good rn and actually trying and being loving; even if he was to be like alright I did that but I wanna have a family with you.. I don’t think I could forget that ever.. like never ever.
He brings up shit I did when he left me and blocked me over a year ago, I admitted my faults. But yeah during my pregnancy he kept saying cj my ex could do that shit and u dealt with it but u can’t for me.. this is horseshit I should have known man
What’s this piece of trash he is talking to look like?
@joyfulmom2b, SMFH what a d*mn hypocrite, bashing your ex for cheating but then turns around and does the same exact thing except you were pregnant this time so that makes it so much worse so he is a hypocrite times 100! It’s sh*t like that, that really just pisses me off! My biological father done the same exact thing to my mom while she was pregnant constantly cheating on her before, during, and after her pregnancies.. All 3 of them!
@dontspankme, I do agree n I’ve told him a lot of pple find that bs ridiculous. He just knows he can hurt me when he wants n does use that against me. I just can’t believe he’s turned into the Man he made fun of n said he never be
@joyfulmom2b, who cares if he freaks out! He’s cheating, that trumps everything. He doesn’t love you if he starts that custody bs. And if he wants to play that game then take it to the courts. That shouldn’t be a card he tried to play when he wants to get his way. A-hole has to bring your son into it. You need to leave him. I hope I don’t sound mean but he sounds so childish and just a plain ol jerk.
@dontspankme, I know I do but I feel like it’s gonna get me no where he’s just gonna freak out knowing I looked n pull the whole I’m taking custody bs again. Literally all I’ve done during this pregnancy is try to tlk to him n help him become better but fml 😭 I’m devastated he would really do that to me n our family
@joyfulmom2b, you have to talk to him. Of course you love him but a man that loves his girl and mother to his child wouldn’t do that period. I don’t want you to settle for less especially if he’s being nice to you and sucking up. It still doesn’t hide the fact that you caught him creeping.
@amberjacq, I’m at that point I really am, he’s caused so much stress for me throughout the pregnancy n never cared at all; wouldn’t even comprehend how bad it was for the baby. I just feel dumb, n what gets me is he knew my ex n how he cheated, called him scum. So how the hell does he not feel like a complete piece of shit for cheating on his pregnant gf, even sending nudes to eachother is fucking ridiculous
@dontspankme, thank you so much, ive never loved anyone like him and been so loyal to him.. I don’t wanna leave him at all, but he’s been literally destroying me throughout this pregnancy; I can’t believe him
@gem_1618, @mamabear33016, @briannalynn547, @dontspankme, I don’t really have anywhere to go really nor money 😭 I feel like an idiot, n I feel like he was good really sweet during birth n now bc he didn’t want me to leave with our kid; I shouldn’t have given our son his last name like I planned.
I would like to know who in the h*ll he thinks he is and I want to know who and the h*ll she thinks she is for sending sh*t like that to a man with a woman who is carrying his child!! If I was you I call his a** our and Id tell him you know he is a cheating lying b*stard, and I’d walk my a** to his mother’s room, and tell her what a fine boy she raised, and tell her what an amazing liar, and cheater he is, and then I’d walk to my bedroom, and pack all of my stuff, and grab my baby, and leave his pathetic used up a**
@joyfulmom2b, who cares if he flips, he’s been unfaithful!
@joyfulmom2b, I’m sorry. I would be so hurt especially after giving birth a week ago. He clearly has no respect for you. You are beautiful, don’t let him treat you this way. You deserve more.
@dontspankme, just found it, literally hasn’t even been a week since I gave birth; he’s still msging her also. N I’m living with him at his moms
@briannalynn547, that’s how it use to be, believe me he’s gonna flip shit knowing I looked now.. I can’t believe he’s done this
@joyfulmom2b, oh no! What a pig! Why haven’t you kicked him out yet? Or confront him about the cheating?
I never even think to tbh . My man could be cheating on me and is literally never know lol . But that’s the thing I do know !! Whenever I have to use his phone or answer people when he’s driving for him I never see anything and when he sleeps sometimes I play his games cause I’m out of life on mine and it never goes off another woman . I’m sorry you’re going through that ! Leave that man !!!
@mamabear33016, @gem_1618, I looked at his Snapchat and found nudes from a girl and pictures of them out together and tlking dirty n sending nudes to eachother. N her trying to get custody of her kid..
this all when I was 6-7 months pregnant..
I’m 💔💔😭😭 like I just gave birth to our kid, I feel completely sick to my stomach.he asked me y I was mean mugging him tonight.. like he was actually acting good lately. I’m destroyed
Nope nope nope
If you feel like you have reason to, then you’re with the wrong person
@joyfulmom2b, who cares if he freaks out! He’s cheating, that trumps everything. He doesn’t love you if he starts that custody bs. And if he wants to play that game then take it to the courts. That shouldn’t be a card he tried to play when he wants to get his way. A-hole has to bring your son into it. You need to leave him. I hope I don’t sound mean but he sounds so childish and just a plain ol jerk.