Husband or child?!?!
I was watching Oprah and this woman was asked if her car went into a lake and she could only save her husband or her child, who would she choose. She said "I would save my husband because I can always make more kids with him!"
I would do everything I could to save everyone, but if it came down to not being able to, my husband would NEVER let me take him first. And I would totally understand as I would do the same in his shoes. There would be an unspoken understanding that I have to take them first and I'll do everything humanly possible to get back for him. If one of us saved the other's life at the expense of one our children, honestly neither of us would ever recover and there would be no 'happy family starting over'.
My husband says things like that though. About how if something terrible were to happen, we would be able to start again. Not replace, just have more. I see what he is saying, but it kills me to think about. It would be an awful situation that many people have had to experience. The little colon frown doesn't quite seem to do it for the end of this.
Id save both. Id grab my 7 week old and grab df and since he can swim im sure hed save himself but if he couldnt mama bear would come out and I would save both. Leaving either of them behind isnt an option. If we happened to have our dds with us I have two arms and a back for a reason dd1 is old enough to hold on as well as my sd. So that would leave jr in my arm who id be holding, sd and dd holdin on in the other arm and df on my back. But we only ever have ds so that would be cake:)
I think in the end most women would instinctively save their children. but they would forever live with the guilt of basically allowing their loved one to die. (at least I would) id desperately want to save both and if I couldn't I, not sure id be able to muster the ability to still be a good mom full of life and love afterwards.
I hate choosing and thinking about it! I guess what bothered me was her reason. "I can just make more"... Like her children are just replaceable!! Yuck!
I hate questions like this. Of course you're going to want to save both an you'll feel bad for choosing one person over the other. But like a previous poster said- you could save your husband to help you save the child. I can't imagine being in a situation like that because id want to save both.
This girl on my fb is 8 weeks pregnant with her first child and she said she felt the baby 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️people these days 😂😂😂
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Some women are just strong.My cousin’s husband cheated on her with another woman and got her pregnant.Since my cousin wanted to save their marriage she decided to stay with him but one thing that piss me off is that the husband still going to visit the child and take gifts to her.My cousin had a daughter same as her husband mistress.Honestly I can’t keep up with that she is going through a lot right now.What would you do ?leave the guy or save your marriage ? The guy broke the marriage vows
Ladies...if your husband has a friend of the opposite sex who is asking for advice from him about what to do about her cheating husband....how would you feel about it? Would you even let that conversation go on? I would like to get every and any opinion on this matter
I'd save my child, no question about it. I love my hubby but a child is helpless and as a mom it's my responsibility to do everything in my power to keep them safe. I could never live with myself if I didn't do that.