Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My husband sucks, just because he works 7 days a week now because it's summer he does not want to go to a concert we we're invited to over a month ago. We never do ANYTHING with other people. The whole 7 years we have been together I can count on one hand how many times we have done something with friends. I hate that he is so lazy and acts his old age. He thinks because he works he does not have to do anything else. Then I asked if I could go and he still said no because then he would have to watch the kids. My friend then offered to pay for a sitter. Still said no. He said he might as well go out and do something by himself tonight and leave me home with the kids before he lets me go with them. Says I get more time to myself then he does, god I hate how he always compares everything. Like he does this more and I don't do this, like work. Yes I do work, I take care of our children and the house. I want a life again, and do stuff like most people do. I'm sick if being home and just running errands. Ok no one get mad because letting off steam, thanks
crying because he got me a Snickers and i asked for a reese😢😢😢 why would he do that!!!
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
Alexia Dahlin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Nothing he does it and or asks what I did while I was and we move on with our day. Oddly enough my husband will not get into arguments with me when he’s mad he goes into our room and does his thing then come out and kisses me and we move on. Idk if it’s the military in him or what but we have only been in 4 arguments in the past 3 years
Lanie Jay··
Мама троих детей
Then I don't see an issue. 🤷🏽♀️
Lanie Jay·
Мама троих детей
I guess it depends on the circumstances. Like asking is different than telling. What happens if you don't agree and choose not to? Do you have to ask permission for things? What happens if you don't?
Not really questions to answer, just points to think about.
There's power in submission. I'm a submissive wife, however, my husband is a respectable man and doesn't abuse that.
Alexia Dahlin··
Мама двоих (младенец)
My husband has never hit me and the most he’s ever raised his voice at me is when I hit my head and had blood coming out and he yelled at me to stop walking around and sit down and relax. And IV always asked that’s the way my father and step mother are so I just do it. It’s very rare that he says no
Lanie Jay··
Мама троих детей
abuse is more than hitting and yelling. I'm not saying your husband is abusive, just clarifying a point. What if you didnt comply with what he asked? Or if he said no and you chose to anyways?
cantdeletebutimgone·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
I do with certain things. I'm still a stay-at-home mom I've been for 5 years. Usually when it comes to the house though like where things go where not to put things Etc I tell him because the house is my domain. But he's asked me to help him save money with bills and things like that so I try to maintain electricity a lot and have most things on a schedule so that they're not overused like laundry in baths/showers etc. Now when it comes to me going out and doing things or going out with friends I just do it because my daughter is always with me so it's usually just play dates the kids will play and my friends and I will chat. Same for them coming over we just do it I don't ask
Sha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
People who ask you that are usually jealous and miserable in their relationships. There's nothing wrong with taking care of your man and showing him that he is appreciated. 💙
Alexia Dahlin··
Мама двоих (младенец)
It’s so annoying they always say he’s “controlling” because he asks me to do stuff and I just do it. Like I’m sorry i didn’t know I was supposed to be selfish and self centered. That and sometimes I ask him “hey can go go out tonight with so and so” or “hey can so and so come over” it’s not because I have to it’s because I want to know if we got money for me to be doing that or to make sure he’s not tired from working all day and wants to come home to a quite house