So my sons father, who I'm separating, just called me out of a dead sleep to tell me hes gonna get our son for a few days. There is nothing I can do about it. I need to watch what I say bc I'm digging myself a deeper hole. I legit do not want my baby staying with him without supervision from someone I know and trust. Hes never taken care of lane by himself. Infact when I told him we wasnt getting back together Thursday, ha hadnt called to check on his son once till a few minutes ago and that was to talk about getting a custody agreement on letting him have him😭😭 if some of you have kept up with my posts you know what I've been through with him and why I'm so upset.
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Btw I know that sounds horrible but you gotta do what you gotta do to protect your baby. If you know he can't manage him by himself then do not let him take him.
Girl I would just tell him no. Tell him you want to go to court and figure out the custody agreement first. Besides I highly doubt he'd even show up to get him anyways. He's just trying to scare you. Plus if he did you and I both know hed prob bring him right back because he has no idea what he's doing with him. And yes you can tell him No. He can't do anything about it. Because honestly if he tired to show up at your mamas house after yall said no, she can call the cops for him trespassing and starting shit on her land. 🤷
He decided hes just gonna come visit tomorrow🤷♀️ I hate this but thankfully my sister will be with me.
@taymw11 yes make sure you both are there and don't even let him think for a min he can leave with him. Don't even let him see his car seat lol. Because he might try to be sneaking and put him in it and take off. And if he don't have a seat to put him in he can't leave lol
Nope, he can take him and you’d have to go to court to get him back. Just tell him y’all will sort out the visitation in court. There is not a court that will think badly of you stating that. And it doesn’t sound like he’s grown up enough to actually follow through with whatever custody he comes up with. But you need to get that started so this drama of him taking him all the time will end. The courts will make sure he follows the agreement.
Plus, here i think it's not until 1 they can have overnights.
You actually cant call the cops if there is no custody agreement there is literally nothing you can do. You CAN go file for emergency custody though but idk how long it takes. I had a friend go through this.
I wouldn’t let him take your son without a custody agreement in place honestly. I’d go somewhere neutral so he can visit him while you’re there, but I’d be too scared to let him take him alone. Best of luck to you ❤️
Oh I'm not. He says hes gonna get someone to write everything up but he'll probably get them to write it how he wants it and I wont be ok with it so we'll have to go to court. Just scared of them letting him take him off alone. My babys never been away from me more than 24 hrs
@taymw11, I doubt the court will let him do anything other than supervised visits for a while, especially after reading your past posts. I say just to meet up and keep everything civil that way the court can see that you’re not keeping your son from his dad and that you offered for him to see your son under your supervision. That’s a rough situation for sure.
@mmmsugarcookies plus he says he dont have a job no more but got a loan and a house till he starts a new one. He lies so much I'd never know new here they are
U can call the cops if he try’s and takes ur son he has know right to do that at all
We're gonna have to end up going to court, I'm just so terrified of the judge giving him rights without supervision before hes one
Hes never taken care of him. Hell there were days he wouldnt even talk to him