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Taylor Boudreaux
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So my sons father, who I'm separating, just called me out of a dead sleep to tell me hes gonna get our son for a few…

So my sons father, who I'm separating, just called me out of a dead sleep to tell me hes gonna get our son for a few days. There is nothing I can do about it. I need to watch what I say bc I'm digging myself a deeper hole. I legit do not want my baby staying with him without supervision from someone I know and trust. Hes never taken care of lane by himself. Infact when I told him we wasnt getting back together Thursday, ha hadnt called to check on his son once till a few minutes ago and that was to talk about getting a custody agreement on letting him have him😭😭 if some of you have kept up with my posts you know what I've been through with him and why I'm so upset.

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taymw11

Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца

Hes never taken care of him. Hell there were days he wouldnt even talk to him

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xoxochelsey

ChelseyМама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

Btw I know that sounds horrible but you gotta do what you gotta do to protect your baby. If you know he can't manage him by himself then do not let him take him.

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xoxochelsey

ChelseyМама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

Girl I would just tell him no. Tell him you want to go to court and figure out the custody agreement first. Besides I highly doubt he'd even show up to get him anyways. He's just trying to scare you. Plus if he did you and I both know hed prob bring him right back because he has no idea what he's doing with him. And yes you can tell him No. He can't do anything about it. Because honestly if he tired to show up at your mamas house after yall said no, she can call the cops for him trespassing and starting shit on her land. 🤷

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taymw11

Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца

He decided hes just gonna come visit tomorrow🤷‍♀️ I hate this but thankfully my sister will be with me.

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xoxochelsey

ChelseyМама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

@taymw11 yes make sure you both are there and don't even let him think for a min he can leave with him. Don't even let him see his car seat lol. Because he might try to be sneaking and put him in it and take off. And if he don't have a seat to put him in he can't leave lol

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massmomma16

MassMomma16Мама дочки (2 года)

Nope, he can take him and you’d have to go to court to get him back. Just tell him y’all will sort out the visitation in court. There is not a court that will think badly of you stating that. And it doesn’t sound like he’s grown up enough to actually follow through with whatever custody he comes up with. But you need to get that started so this drama of him taking him all the time will end. The courts will make sure he follows the agreement.

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supermomofdcjcx2

Tabetha AnnМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Plus, here i think it's not until 1 they can have overnights.

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supermomofdcjcx2

Tabetha AnnМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

You actually cant call the cops if there is no custody agreement there is literally nothing you can do. You CAN go file for emergency custody though but idk how long it takes. I had a friend go through this.

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mmmsugarcookies

Heather wМама троих детей

I wouldn’t let him take your son without a custody agreement in place honestly. I’d go somewhere neutral so he can visit him while you’re there, but I’d be too scared to let him take him alone. Best of luck to you ❤️

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taymw11

Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца

Oh I'm not. He says hes gonna get someone to write everything up but he'll probably get them to write it how he wants it and I wont be ok with it so we'll have to go to court. Just scared of them letting him take him off alone. My babys never been away from me more than 24 hrs

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mmmsugarcookies

Heather wМама троих детей

@taymw11, I doubt the court will let him do anything other than supervised visits for a while, especially after reading your past posts. I say just to meet up and keep everything civil that way the court can see that you’re not keeping your son from his dad and that you offered for him to see your son under your supervision. That’s a rough situation for sure.

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taymw11

Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца

@mmmsugarcookies plus he says he dont have a job no more but got a loan and a house till he starts a new one. He lies so much I'd never know new here they are

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del_1546536346_jacobmomma2018

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U can call the cops if he try’s and takes ur son he has know right to do that at all

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taymw11

Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца

We're gonna have to end up going to court, I'm just so terrified of the judge giving him rights without supervision before hes one

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

What do you think???? I know that I over reacting but me and the father of my kids are not in good terms.. I ask my mom…

What do you think???? I know that I over reacting but me and the father of my kids are not in good terms.. I ask my mom to give the kids to him that's it. but he have her money to get stuff without telling me...she help him with getting a car after all he did to me...he not wanting my daughter and not been with my kids a full weekend.. I'm been doing everything alone.. I call him and he was that's not of your business.... I don't call his family at all how he is with my kids.. I'm about to give up 💔