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Illyra Smale
Illyra Smale
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It's the end of day two and I'm already exhausted. I sat there looking at my baby tonight- the one I watched come out of…

It's the end of day two and I'm already exhausted. I sat there looking at my baby tonight- the one I watched come out of my vagina- and all I wanted to do was cry.

Then continued to cry myself to sleep.

I don't feel that connection. The one every mom says they get the second they see there baby. To me he's just another baby. And I hate myself for it.

I love him don't get me wrong. I'd be absolutely devastated if anything happened to him. But.. I don't know how to explain it..

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melodylayne

Melody Мама троих детей

And congrats on your new baby as well!!!

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melodylayne

Melody Мама троих детей

The connection will come in time, I feel bad for my girls because with my new guy I feel that connection that I never had with my twins when they were born, they were my first and I thought something was wrong with me, but it’s ok because the connection came. Sometimes you just feel differently towards the littles and that’s ok too

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rainbowbaby1029

Illyra SmaleМама двоих (младенец)

@mamachey @samanthalynnshaw21 @aengs2 thanks guys. That does make me feel a bit better

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mamachey

MamacheyМама четверых детей, беременна

I havent given birth yet but compared to my other 4 pregnancies I have zero connection this baby feels like a stranger!!

Many people feel the same its ok

It will pass

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samanthalynnshaw21

SamanthaМама сына (1 год), беременна (2 нед.)

Not everyone has that instant connection. Give yourself sometime, you just had a baby. Your hormones are literally everywhere.

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a.mama22

AМама двоих (младенец)

You're not alone. Not everyone feels an instant connection. I didn't with either baby (and I know many others that have said the same) and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it just takes time. You just have to take it one day at a time and it'll get better. Congrats on your new bundle of love!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?