what are you guys thoughts on letting your baby cry...my baby goes to sleep on me but once I put him…

sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. As long as you know he not in pain or wet or hungry let him cry for a bit... it'll help his lungs.

I can't let my baby cry either. it makes me sad

I let Kalauni cry when she's being spoiled

@january10th, same here. i feel like when he crys it my job to make him feel better.

Yes that's how I feel, & when kaine cries he gets red in the face & almost stops breathing its really scary

between me and his dad he been spoiled Lol neither one of us believe in letting him cry but I also don't want to have to hold him 24/7 either so idk @meplusmytwo

Babies don't know how to "self-soothe" or calm themselves, it's something that has to be taught. This is an interesting read too. http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/health-concerns/fussy-baby/science-says-excessive-crying-could-be-h

Yea Aiden gets red too but Omg not stop breathing that is scary @january10th

Thank you for the article @abbymattingly14

he's done it a few times while I was changing his diaper it scared the crap out of me I had to stop & hold him. he does it every time I take him a bath too I hate it

My son was like that too but instead of allowing him to cry I found a way to make him stop crying. He loves the sound of a vacuum cleaner it's soothing to him for some reason so I normally play it off of youtube. You can also look up White noise for babies on YouTube and figure out which sound works well for him. @kaymariah

my son hates baths he crys hard til it's all over. but for kaine to almost stop breathing is really scary...I'm scared for you. @january10th

Ok Thanks @prettyyellow

he loves the bath its the getting out part & getting dressed he doesn't like it really scares me. my other two never did that

his dad's family spoils her way to much but she's the first grand so I don't say anything. I feel bad when she cry but I ain't try my best not to pick her up

Oh Ok @january10th

it's hard not to pick up your baby when they cry @meplusmytwo