Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Okay ladies I need advice. My husband came home from work a few weeks ago and decided he no longer wanted to be a husband or father. He told me that the kids and I need to leave and if we dont he will no longer pay the Bill's. I am unable to work because of high risk pregnancy. My only option is to move back to ohio and stay with my parents. (We live in Kentucky now) also last weekend I was admitted to the hospital and he was home with the kids...he decided to just walk out and leave them home alone while he went to hang with friends. I'm livid and to the point where I want my children away from him and myself too. Am I wrong for moving so far away?
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
Paternity leave How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
Penelope ·
No friends or anyone that can take you? It could be nothing, but what if you are going through early labor? The sooner you get in the better they can try to stop it.
J Love·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
@penelope127 no we moved and its literally just me and him and our kids. Ive been to labor and deliver numerous times and just been sent home.
Penelope ·
@momofboys3, hopefully nothing is wrong then. 🤷🏼♀️ I wouldn’t chance it.
Heather·
That’s a rough decision. If you could get there and they stop the labor and everything’s good but if you put it off it might not be able to be stopped. I know the feeling of living check to check but maybe think very deeply on this decision. I’m not trying to be rude, just thinking of the whole picture here
MassMomma16·
@momofboys3, is missing a few hours of work worth the risk? Your child’s life could be at risk at the very moment.
Elizabeth J·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Early labor can last for weeks I was in early labor but I wasn't dialating fast enough so I got sent home three times but my water broke after 3 days I understand her I made my husband go into work when I was in the hospital waiting to give birth ended up needing a c section called him told him he doesn't have to leave if he wanted to stay at work he did my mom was in the back with me he ended up leaving anyways changed his mind but his work covered him with pto thank god but I feel her in worse comes to worse she can call 911 if shes in real labor
K·
A couple hours off work is a lot cheaper than the thousands you’d rack up in the nicu.
Victoria ·
Can you try Uber or lyft? 28 weeks could very literally be life or death for baby
Penelope ·
@glencoco, and if they kept baby in the nicu this early it’s usually until your due date.
J Love·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
@mrschanandlerbong95 they dont have uber or lyft i live in the country my hospital is an hour away
K·
@momofboys3, call an ambulance then.
Mandi Archuleta ·
Мама четверых детей
Why can't he tell his boss he needs to leave but he can go back if it's nothing? I mean its literally your babies life at stake. I understand about the money situation but you could end up regretting this.
MassMomma16·
And your husband knows this and hasn’t left work yet?? Mine wouldn’t give two shits about a few hours of work. He’d do anything to make sure our baby was okay. Money situation sucks but you can figure that out later. Shit happens.
J Love·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
@0814mja @masseymomma16 hes on his way we are going in.
MassMomma16·
@momofboys3, thank goodness!! Please update us!
Mandi Archuleta ·
Мама четверых детей
Oh good. I'm glad and I hope it's just a false alarm. Good luck momma
J Love·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
@masseymomma16 @0814mja false alarm. They are checking my urine to see if I have a bladder infection thats causing the contractions but not dilated
MassMomma16·
@momofboys3, that’s great news! Atleast you can put your mind at ease now.
Mandi Archuleta ·
Мама четверых детей
Oh good I glad!