Serious question.... what do I do when calmly explaining to my husband that I need help doesn't work? It's gotten to the point where I have to be crying in order for him to even come in and look at his kids.... he hasn't changed a diaper since B was born (month ago) and last night when I calmly asked him to help with diapers he said "what one is poopy?" When I said both he went in, grabbed a diaper, came back and threw it at me, then went straight to bed.. we haven't slept in the same bed since B was born because the baby cries at night and he can't handle it.... so I have both boys 24/7
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@lii94, I can't lose my shit anymore. It's messing with the 2 year old and I can't handle being constantly angry anymore.
@ek620, the problem is that he will just let them cry until I get home. He did it with our 2 year old before the baby was born
Sounds like you might just need to leave the kids with him for an afternoon while you do something nice for yourself. You’ll get a break & he’ll be forced to pick up the slack. Maybe he’ll have a greater appreciation for how hard it is to take care of two kids with no help.
@honeyxxbee, he was but not quite to this extent. He would change at least one diaper a day and I was able to have him watch our son while I ran to the store. Right now I can't even go to the bathroom without him sitting on the edge of the tub holding the baby.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
IUI Monday!!
So today I went in for my routine bloodwork and ultrasound, and found out that I have three follicles at 17mm! Plus another two at 15mm. When leaving the clinic my FS said to take another dose of gonal-f and come back tomorrow to check to see how big they got and that we would do the iui on Wednesday. Well, after getting home, taking my gonal-f and going out to shovel snow (lol) I get a call saying that I am SURGING!!! I haven't ovulated on my own, or even come close to it in years...
@lilmommy93 sounds toxic nore then anything. Id honestly leave.