Serious question.... what do I do when calmly explaining to my husband that I need help doesn't work? It's gotten to the point where I have to be crying in order for him to even come in and look at his kids.... he hasn't changed a diaper since B was born (month ago) and last night when I calmly asked him to help with diapers he said "what one is poopy?" When I said both he went in, grabbed a diaper, came back and threw it at me, then went straight to bed.. we haven't slept in the same bed since B was born because the baby cries at night and he can't handle it.... so I have both boys 24/7
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@lii94, I can't lose my shit anymore. It's messing with the 2 year old and I can't handle being constantly angry anymore.
@ek620, the problem is that he will just let them cry until I get home. He did it with our 2 year old before the baby was born
Sounds like you might just need to leave the kids with him for an afternoon while you do something nice for yourself. You’ll get a break & he’ll be forced to pick up the slack. Maybe he’ll have a greater appreciation for how hard it is to take care of two kids with no help.
@honeyxxbee, he was but not quite to this extent. He would change at least one diaper a day and I was able to have him watch our son while I ran to the store. Right now I can't even go to the bathroom without him sitting on the edge of the tub holding the baby.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
You know what's upsetting? I was trying something different (sexually) and it was the most fun I had with my hubby in the 3yrs of marriage...last night I wanted to do it again and he said we would...he said no...I was so upset! I cried, slept on my daughter's bedroom floor for a bit then went back to bed and cried myself to sleep....got my hopes up for nothing! 😔😭
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Okay so the ultrasound tech told us he wasn't sure what the gender of our baby is.. At first he said girl then he said boy then he said to keep both names handy...does anyone have ultrasound pics where they were told one gender and the baby was born with the other gender???
@lilmommy93 sounds toxic nore then anything. Id honestly leave.