So my daughters dad just told me straight up, he will not be at the hospital for HIS daughters arrival, and doesn’t know if he will go up there to meet her and sign the certificate.
I’m livid y’all. 😡
Forever YoungМама двоих (младенец)
That's fine. Remind him that it'll be court fees for the mandated DNA test + whatever monetary arrangement you will have. Agree to privately test (much cheaper) and sort it out as adults.
Leslye VelardeМама троих детей
@a.lares, some of these men aren’t embarrassed by shit! It’s just sad that they are like that, like why bother being with someone if you are gonna act that way when reality sets in. It’s beyond me!
Ali Мама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)
I agree with @yvelid, & @leslyev92, you and the baby def don't need him to be there if he hasn't been there for the pregnancy but he needs to be responsible for the life he made. And aren't these men embarrassed when the f***** state MAKES them take care of their kids financially 🤦🏼♀️
Your Mom Is A TrollМама сына (6 лет), беременна (22 нед.)
Document everything. When she is born file for sole custody and child support. If he doesn’t want to be a dad, then okay. But he is still partially financially responsible as he helped make her.
Melissa HargissМама двоих (5 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего
Don't put his ass on the birth cirtificate. Then you dont have to deal with him at all until he pays for a DNA test and takes u to court for rights.
Kelsey BryantМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@yvelid, I totally agree. I probably won’t involve him at all. I’ll give her my last name!
Leslye VelardeМама троих детей
Basically just make him financial responsible even though he doesn’t physically want to be there. 🤷🏻♀️ he still made the baby with you so he has equal responsibilities with your daughter.
Kelsey BryantМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@yvelid, no ma’am! He left when I told him about the baby.
This is actually How I came up with my first daughters name. lol.. ????
My baby was on enfamil gentlease but he was throwing up with it so they switched him to enfamil nutramigen and hes throwing up a ton more with it like alot hes been on it since 9/20 what should i do?
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Becca Young·Мама дочки (4 года)
Hunny.. Don't sweat it.. Don't worry about it.. Because if you put him on the birth certificate that gives him legal rights.. If he puts you threw anything like what my ex husband put me threw you'll be happy he's not on the birth certificate.. Once someone is on the birth certificate it is hard for them to sign rights over or get off the birth certificate.. If he goes to get a DNA it will prove weather or not he's the dad.. If you get state help hell then have to pay child support.. That will not give him visit.. He will have to go back to court for that.. They are 2 different things
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