Momma’s I have a question for you. So me and hubby had a long talk today about when we have another baby (hopefully soon) and I told him when I go into labor I want it just me and him and no body else at the hospital. I want it just to be me and him and the kids and then everyone can come visit when we got home because when I had our daughter and even our son it was so crazy we didn’t really get the bonding time I wanted. Do y’all think I am crazy or have any of y’all don’t it? If so how did you tell your family (both sides)? I don’t think hubby is to onboard with it but it is what I want so I am sticking to it.
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Thanks ladies. It was hard with our daughter because I had complications with her birth. Her heart rate kept dropping and right before the wanted me to push my heart rate dropped and I passed out (they wouldn’t do a c-section even after they told me if her heart rate drops again they would it dropped 4 time total. And when they popped my water they had to fill me back up and when they did she got a lot of fluid in her lungs so she was in the nursery for 4 days after she was born till I could hold her and it was so rough that I just wanted to be with my husband but I had everyone there ( my parents, his parents, my sister, his grandpa) just way to many people. So with the next one it will just be us two
I would do this also, after having my son I just really wanted to get some rest and love on my rainbow baby and to enjoy time with my new little family
I did that for both kids. To be honest because the mom is in pain and at her most vulnerable..my husband understood that it is my decision. You are going through so much, this should be understood. Plus that bonding is so important before those constant family drop ins! Everyone knows that is my rules. It is very well known based on my personality:) Make this known to both sides yourself:)