Rant!! Racist comments ??? my DHs grandpa is so super racist and it drives me insane!! I try not to disturb the peace…

Rant!!

Racist comments ??? my DHs grandpa is so super racist and it drives me insane!! I try not to disturb the peace because he has done so much for DH (he took him out of an abusive situation, got him on the "right track", paid for college and more) and over all he's not a bad person but I cannot overlook this anymore! This weekend we went to visit them and we went shopping with his grandma and she wanted to buy DD a little baby doll, I always let DD "pick" what she wants, she's only 10 months old so I just stick the options in front of her and let her grab one. Well there were two little dolls at the store, one was a blonde haired white doll and the other a brown haired black doll, I stuck them side by side and DD grabbed the black doll. No problem, right? Well we got back to the house and DHs grandpa was making stupid comments about it but nothing too bad... Then he says "well don't let the stupid from the N-word doll rub off on her"..... I was in such shock that he said that, I took DD to the bedroom with me and just sat in there for a while because I didn't even know what to say! DH just sat there and laughed it off but that is absolutely not something I want DD to think is ok and DH completely agrees with me but I feel like he doesn't want to hurt his grandpas feelings by saying anything because he is so good to him. DH and I are going to have a talk about it tonight, that we as just completely unacceptable, I absolutely will not let someone be around my children that says things like that. I love DHs family I just can't imagine raising a child that thinks that way, thinking about my children acting/thinking this way just makes me so sad. Children are so innocent and I absolutely won't raise a child to be so close minded and absolutely ignorant... Ahhhhh. I feel so much better after letting all of this out lol.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and…

Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be…

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?

I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i…

I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.