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Kristina
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I'll tell you where my dang baby is!

I'll tell you where my dang baby is!


I'm not hiding him, he just hasn't been born yet. I know my mom is excited for her first grandchild, but I need everyone to back off. Every text I get is "any sign of baby?" Like, do people really think I'm not going to tell them? That I'll just have a son in 1st grade one day and be like, "Oh, this ol' thing? I've had him for years!" I'm not even 10 days overdue yet.

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I think there just excited, grandchildren and new editions to the family are exciting! ?

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I went through the same thing, you are already uncomfortable, and waiting for babies arrival as is, you dont need ppl hounding you as if you didnt tell them the baby was here

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Just text her and say "don't worry mom I'll call you when I go into labor. :)"

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I hear you! I've been really sick with ms and multiple times a day I get the text, "how are you feeling" or " any better yet?" I'm so glad that my mom cares but it gets old. If I was you is just shut off my phone until the baby comes! ?

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Lol. Their enthusiasm and impatience is understandable, but for the love of all that is holy. Do they not realize mom must be twice as bad and irritated and uncomfortable to boot? I was late with both mine and I feel you. If I got one more text of "anything yet" I was going to go postal on everyone lol.

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My mom was the same way. I just tried to remind her she'd be the first person I call with any new developments. I was 12 days over with my second and then we knew exactly when he was coming when we had to change to a csection at the end(no induction after emergency cs with my first). She bugged me less after that, lol.

I lost my mom last Christmas and we absolutely did not plan on having another child. This time I have no one checking up on me. Definitely miss it...as annoying as it was at times :)

tapwater

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I do appreciate their concern. That's why I'm snarking about it on here not to the people that love me. It's sweet but I just kind of want to be in my own head while I wait and freak out about being a parent for the first time.


But maybe they'll get to meet the little gaffer soon since I'm rocking some cervidil and might have post term hypertension. Wahoo!

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Oh I feel ya. I literally just had my baby only about 30hrs ago and he was 10days overdue. At first it didn't bother me, but the more days that past the more annoying it got. I ended making a post on fb every couple days with an update. Best of luck

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???? I love how this is worded. Just be like, What baby?

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Sorry OP! This made me laugh though ?


My mom will always call me during the day and be like, "where's the baby?" I'll respond with, "Sold him!"

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.