Well I figure I’ll update lol because I’m so indecisive sometimes lol I recently spent time with a four month old that was like the size of two month old lol but he really made me want a little boy so I decided that it didn’t matter if I was pregnant on my birthday or not I’ve had 7months to drink and I just don’t do it often enough for it to matter lol so I want another baby and if that happens sooner rather than later then great :) and hopefully it’ll be a little boy :)

I think it’s something we probably just need to sit downs and talk about again because obviously I wanna give him the babies he wants but my birthday is in may she will be ten months tax season will be done and we will have paid off a few things and I wanna get a tattoo lol I wanna start my tattoo for my daughter and get our ring tattoos I know he won’t be upset because well I push it out but I know when I’m not worried about things I’ll be ready for my second med free birth of hopefully a baby boy lol

My kids are almost exactly two years apart. When my first was 1 we started trying again and got pregnant but miscarried then by the time we got pregnant again the due date was right around my Firsts bday. I don’t regret it there were things I wanted to do as well but my kids are so awesome together because they are so close in age. It does suck having there birthdays so close together though! We waited a extra year this time around and are now starting to try again for baby #3 and I’m glad I waited the extra time so they will be about 3 years apart this time. It all depends on you. I feel im ready now to be pregnant for a long 9 months again lol. But if your not ready take some time! Your husband should understand!

I wanted to make sure my body was ready. I read that the ideal gap between pregnancies is 18 months. We started trying when our son was 14 months so we could hopefully be pregnant by the time he was 18 months.

Lol I’d wait! It’s only a couple months give or take in the big picture it’s not a huge amount of time!!!

I mean I feel ready but I just know if I’m pregnant on my birthday two years in a row I’ll be super bummed out :/ haha but if that’s what happens I’ll still love my babies :)

If your not ready don’t push it.. wait a bit longer, go celebrate your birthday your not selfish for wanting to do you! We do everything for our babies (as it should be) but doing things for ourselves makes everyone happy. When moms happy so is everyone ?I’d wait and then when you get that have to have feeling then go for it. At least you know your hubby is ready!! I’m kinda in the same predicament too I want to get pregnant but I want a good summer too. Lots of camping and we’re also building a house so for me the time is just not right at the moment even tho I really want to. I have to just be patient haha

I waited till my first was closer to 2 years old to get pregnant again because there was stuff coming up I didn’t want to be pregnant for. Looking back I regret waiting. I wish I would have had my girls closer together. We are trying for number 3 now and we decided to get going sooner because of last time.. ? whatever you and hubby decide will be right for your family. Baby dust to you when it’s time. ?

When the time is right you both will know :) there's no rush into having baby #2... enjoy your baby and when you are ready you'll just know.. We are trying for baby #2 since our little guy was 9 months he's 16 months now.. Everyone knows when they're ready :)