I Have a question mommies I’m a First Time Mom and everyone keeps saying when my baby get here there gonna take my baby…

Anyone who would be mad at you for not wanting to let you kid out of your sight isn't worth your time or consideration any way. Especially if they have kids of their own they should understand.

Wanna know like the pettiest thing ever? So my mom will NEVER take my daughter, Melody. Ever. And the first time she did she gave her back and 2nd time she kept her without a problem. But my daughter is 1y2m and my mom has literally only taken her twice in her whole life time. But she’s already all up on my ass wanting to watch Harmony (my daughter that’s not even born). My mom is a crazy bitch and she yells and gets stressed out. I remember when she used to watch my nephew she was fucking awful. So damn mean yelling at everyone yelling at an innocent baby that’s crying because he’s hungry. Like that’s why she’s only had her twice and plus she favors my nephew anyway. My mom isn’t even allowed to come to the hospital this time. Because last time she ARGUED with my ex’s family literally as I was coming out of the delivery room and just had been stitched up and going to recovery. I just don’t let anyone have my daughter. You never know what could happen when you’re not around. And one time we all went to a pull party and my mom INSISTED I give her table foods. She was not big enough and had literally 2 teeth. But my mom was like give her pudding she can have pudding. UM NO SHE CAN NOT HAVE COWS MILKS. But I did it anyway because my mom was being such a bitch and it fucked my daughters bowls up so much. I hate the woman.

@kiyalovingmines, ikr I feel the same lol or longer I think I’m a be one of those parents who will never let my baby out of my sight no matter how old he gets

@ckaitate i think everybody is using to different things lol i thought u were talking about the hospital lol my bad.. But your talking about family and friends... Ok gotcha... Just say no.. A baby suppose to be with his or her mom until 6 months

Anyone who would be mad at you for not wanting to let you kid out of your sight isn't worth your time or consideration any way. Especially if they have kids of their own they should understand.

@ckaitate, I got trust issues too that’s why I only let the grandparents watch him. He will not be in daycare. People don’t even ask besides them two so thank god. But it’s your baby girl, you have every right to tell them no. And if they get mad oh well. They can come to you if they wanna see your baby.

@bbyzvcy18, lol no I was talking about friends and family

I understand you. Theres nothing you can really do when they need to take the baby for check ups. The best thing to do is have someone you can trust there to accompany your baby when you cant, the dad, sister, mom etc. I went with my sister during her delivery and when she couldnt tend her baby i made sure her baby was perfectly fine and that no one mistreated the little baby.

@crystal.newman, omg yea see that’s what I’m scared of people being careless with my child . I know I’m not letting anyone take my baby. Thank you for sharing that story with me

Wanna know like the pettiest thing ever? So my mom will NEVER take my daughter, Melody. Ever. And the first time she did she gave her back and 2nd time she kept her without a problem. But my daughter is 1y2m and my mom has literally only taken her twice in her whole life time. But she’s already all up on my ass wanting to watch Harmony (my daughter that’s not even born). My mom is a crazy bitch and she yells and gets stressed out. I remember when she used to watch my nephew she was fucking awful. So damn mean yelling at everyone yelling at an innocent baby that’s crying because he’s hungry. Like that’s why she’s only had her twice and plus she favors my nephew anyway. My mom isn’t even allowed to come to the hospital this time. Because last time she ARGUED with my ex’s family literally as I was coming out of the delivery room and just had been stitched up and going to recovery. I just don’t let anyone have my daughter. You never know what could happen when you’re not around. And one time we all went to a pull party and my mom INSISTED I give her table foods. She was not big enough and had literally 2 teeth. But my mom was like give her pudding she can have pudding. UM NO SHE CAN NOT HAVE COWS MILKS. But I did it anyway because my mom was being such a bitch and it fucked my daughters bowls up so much. I hate the woman.

They will take your baby for a lil bit then give your baby back to you

@mommytotheo, I know it gotta be a reason for that too I understand I’m just nervous that’s all because it’s a baby not a doll and people don’t understand that

@kiyalovingmines, I mean like after my baby is born and he’s still a New born they want him to spend the night and come over because that’s what they let other people do with there baby.

Who would ask you that? @ckaitate like at the hospital?? Because they never did that to me... Sometimes they will ask you that in the hospital so that u can get some sleep.... But everything is up to you.. Its not going to be hard

U have every right, momma! Who cares if they think ur rude! If you don't feel comfortable with it then listen to that instinct. There's a reason for it!

I feel you only wanting to let certain people watch your kids. My finances family still thinks I'm joking about not letting them watch my kid

I feel you I don't go back to work till March and even thinking about going back to work makes me cry

@krystalracine1217, yea I’m gonna cry when it’s time to leave my baby for work but the 2 people that will watch him I trust a lot

@shorty02, well I hope they disappear 😂😂😂 because I don’t want them to have my child. And yes grits she gave her more than that but that’s still scary to me

I know the feeling I don't like leaving my daughter with her grandmother let alone her father with her only being 4 weeks only

Thats ur child so it dont matter what ppl say

@ckaitate grits!? Hell no. And that's exactly why I didn't. And watch how they all say they want the baby but once the baby gets here and everybody use to I hope they remember they wanted the baby. Ppl love to disappear lol

Say no and if they get snoody then explain your reasoning but really you don’t have to explain yourself so if they get snotty and don’t understand then they aren’t worth your time.

@shorty02, yea some the people that are saying they want my child are not really good parents to me and I don’t mean to be judge mental but I just wouldn’t trust them with my child my friend told me she feed her baby grits at 2 months and she wanted to do the same with mine and it kinda freaked me out because that’s scary and there to young for table food

@ace160, okay thank you I will keep that in mind

@damiensmommy1117, oh yea that’s smart lol didn’t think of that

@tansuini7, My Friends and Some of my Aunts but I see how they treat there children and let’s just say there not the smartest people a live . Only person I trust is my grandmother and my One Aunty because they have common sense . But I see how people did my cousin they always had her baby and she let them take her but I don’t want to do that I just have trust issues that’s all and I love my baby so much and he’s not even here yet

Just say no or no thank you your the parent they will get butt hurt but just remember it’s your child and there safety my son has never been away from me until 2 days ago he is a year and a half and the only reason I allowed it cause I’m in labor with his brother and I even wanted to keep him here with me and they told me no lol just remember your the parent and everyone will get over it

You can always just say "Not yet" and just keep saying it until you're ready to share him. Lol

My mother in law wanted my daughter and she was barely two months! I said no. I don't like her anyways... I just said no I'm sorry but I'm just not ready to let her out my sight. Kill with kindness lol

@worlds.okayest.mom, 😂😂😂 I just don’t want people to think I’m being boujee because I’m not I just don’t trust anyone I wish I could just say no it’s hard

Keep your little bundle of joy to yourself. Who’s going to take your baby if you don’t mind me asking. When I was pregnant with my first everyone said they would watch him for me and I was so hesitant. But now he goes to both his grandmas house and that’s it. My mom and my fiancé’s mom. No one else will watch him. I won’t let it happen, I don’t trust strangers with my baby even if they know what their doing

"No." It really is that simple.