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Moms My title is very vague but does anyone else have a mother that just hates every name you pick for your kids ? I'm…

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My title is very vague but does anyone else have a mother that just hates every name you pick for your kids ? I'm not even pregnant with our second yet and she's already insisting I name our hypothetical son Thomas , even though she knows that no matter if it's a boy or girl we are choosing Charlie (Charles for boy ) but then she turns around and says that Charles is a nerd name and he will get beat up , when I get upset with her she says she is kidding even when I know she's not. She refuses to call my daughter her name , she calls her pudge (like on lilo and stitch the fish) her names Leighly'Anne her middle name is Mae like there's tons of other things she can call her , before she was born she told me she'd call her some other name that she came up with. It's frustrating but I can't confront her over and over and she just never get it I can only waste my breathe so much. To top it off my daughter hates when she holds her because she doesn't see her but once every two to three weeks so she really doesn't know who she is. Sorry this is long and bless you if you read it all just frustrating lol

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cmaddux46

Colene MadduxМама дочки-младенца

It's super frustrating sounds terrible but it makes me smile when my daughter cries when she holds her lol she doesn't come around often and when she does she's loud and wearing perfume ( which my daughter hates lol)

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My mom hates every name I have on my list, so my mom will have to deal with what me and bd decide on. It is my child not hers. She said "I'll love him regardless" Lol your mom isn't the one carrying or making the baby so she really has no right to try to force you to him him something

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Oh man that’s super frustrating and unfair of her to do. I’m a fairly straight forward person and would easily look her in the eye and tell her she had her time as a mom when this was up to her. If she can’t be a gracious lovable grandma then don’t come around until she can figure it out.

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That is frustrating we chose the name Isabella and my Nan and sister were very opinionated and negative about it which i also found hard. She isn't due until Jan so I don't know what they will end up calling her. It sounds like a control thing with your mum. I would either calmly confront her or bite your tongue and practice some deep breathing, it may not be worth the upset.Don't worry my mum is not hugely supportive or hands on either ( I am 26 weeks and have only seen her 3 times). I take solace in the fact that I plan on having a different relationship with my daughter. X

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