Ugh
I'm either pregnant or my body really hates me. I want to be pregnant so bad, but I hate to get my hopes up. I feel exactly how I did with my first little one. I have to nap every day because I am beyond tired. I'm not hungry when normally food is my favorite thing. I keep having light cramping but my af probably isn't due for a while since I stopped bleeding from mc on the 21st. We've been BDing lots and I will test on the 7th. If I'm not pregnant I'm going to be pretty frustrated because feeling this way isn't worth it without a lo on the way. 1 more week, I hope it flies by! Good luck to all of us.
I kept getting bfn's and my af showed up. I bled normal for two days and that was it. I guess I'll just have to wait for my body to normalize. I kept hoping maybe since af was so short it wouldn't count, but I tested a few days after af and still got a bfn. Hopefully November will be our month!
When is your af due? Mine is due on Monday if I count my mc bleeding as af. I'm hoping the BFP will show up in the next few days. I feel more pregnant this time than I did last time. This time I even have sore boobs, it has to be a sign. I'm going to be really disappointed if af shows. Fx that this is our month and we all get our bfp's!
I tested this morning and got a bfn. :( I've only tested with cheap dollar store tests though, I want to buy a frer if af doesn't show this weekend. Thanks for checking in, how are you?
Saturday isn't far away at all! I hope we both have good news by then. I did read on another post that our progesterone picks up after ovulation and can cause lots of symptoms even if your not pregnant. At least it means ovulation occurred. I'm still going to tell myself I'm pregnant though unless proven otherwise.
I had a negative hpt too. Most of those only pick up hcg if it's over 25 though. There are some that pick up as low as 10. I just hope we're pregnant and not going crazy...lol. I really want to test now but I know it's too early. Friday can't get here soon enough. When are you testing again?
All of my symptoms went away after the mc too. My guess, which is completely a guess not based on any facts, is that since we're trying so close to our mc then maybe our levels didn't drop all the way to zero. By getting pregnant again since we already had some hcg in our system then the numbers are higher than they normally would be at this point and that's why the symptoms started so early. I really wish I could prove that's the reason why. Nothing else I consider really makes sense though. There is no other reason I can think of for hcg to rise, and hcg levels should be what's causing our symptoms. I never feel like this before af, but I know some women do. I guess we'll figure out the answer before too long. Fx!!
Thanks Shanleigj, that really gets my hopes up. I'm telling myself I'm pregnant and trying to stay positive. ButterflyShae, I feel pregnant, I just hope I am. I have most of the same symptoms as last time with a little nausea and sore boobs added in. I'm conceded though because the symptoms started so early. I don't know if it's because I already had some hcg leftover or what. I might test tomorrow even though it's way too early just to feed my need to poas. I really hope you guys are pregnant and me too so we can move to the June forum together. :)
I'm sure my normal 28 day cycles are going to be all messed up after the mc, but I hope I don't have to find out. I guess we'll see.
Last time we got lucky without extra help. I just calculated my o day from an af tracking ap and we made sure to bd around that. I decided this month to try that method again and see if it works. If it doesn't I'll probably try preseed next month. I truly feel pregnant though so I'm going to be really disappointed if I'm not. I'll ask you for advice if we move to the other methods. Baby dust for us all!
He does...lol! He always says 'Didnt we have sex yesterday', even though we're BDing every other day. It's been fun though, I just think guys don't like too much of a good thing. I'm just going to keep on with every other day until af shows or I get a BFP. Please let it be a BFP...lol! TTC can be so frustrating and exciting at the same time.
That is a lot of work, but now seems like the perfect time to get it done. I've still got to make time to bd because I'm not sure if I already ovulated or if I will later. I feel like I already have, but I don't want to take the chance. BDing is my favorite part of the process so I don't mind. :)
I have a long week of work ahead of me. I'm going to be working 7:15-6pm M-F and the next weekend too. I love my job, I manage a bank, but we're short staffed right now and I know I'm going to wear myself out. It'll help keep me occupied though. What are your plans on getting through the 2ww?
I hope you can get pregnant again soon too! If it happened once it can happen again. You'll make a wonderful mommy I'm sure.
It would be! I got my first BFP 3 days before my birthday and it was the most amazing gift. It was all I ever wanted. It sucks that I lost that lo, but I'm glad I'm able to try again. We've just got to hope for the best and enjoy every single minute we get to be pregnant despite the pain and discomfort. I'm so excited to do it all again. I was only in my 5th week when the lo stopped growing and had a natural mc. I think if I can make it safely to my first ultrasound and see the lo and heartbeat I'll want to tell everyone. Stay positive, June babies will be wonderful. :)
Happy early anniversary! This will be our first child as well. DH and I have been married for a year and a half, but together for almost 7 years. He's 30 and I'm 29. We're both so excited to start our family.
Thank you! I wish we could all get our bfp's. Not knowing is hard and bfn's are even worse.
I agree!! I don't want to see another af for a very long time. My friend and I are tell each other we're pregnant, but it's hard because if I'm not I will be so disappointed. How long have you been TTC? We started in august and got a BFP the first cycle and this is our first cycle after the mc, although I haven't had my af yet.
I'm testing on the 7th, how about you? If I count my mc bleeding as af then my next af is due the 10th. I've been tempted to test every day...lol.
Thank you! I just don't think I can get that lucky twice in a row. I guess time will tell. Good luck to you too!
And now the smell of dinner makes me want to throw up. :( Maybe I'm getting sick or something.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Fx for you!! I'm not sure when I'll test next but I hope November is a great month for all of us!