for the mommas to tore , we need to talk. How many stitches ? How was pooping if u don’t mind sharing. I need the…

@kay.ari_, I’m so sorry! Lol

@quincysmommmmy_, it’s getting a lot better. It still hurts to pee but it’s not to bad.

With my oldest child I tore. I had to get 3 stitches. I didn’t tear with my second child. Hopefully I don’t with this child. I think I tore with my first because I didn’t necessarily listen to the doctor when he told when to push and when not to. It seemed as if my body just wanted the baby out and I kept pushing.

@tyancyy17 Lord you scared me and I've had a baby before.

Yes it was a horrible experience so that’s why I wanna just opt for a c section this time

@tyancyy17, omg ☹️

Omg 😰😓@tyancyy17,

@quincysmommmmy_, well he had to do an episiotomy to help her come out but once her shoulders came out she tore me all the way down...

@brianna.bruch, how was the healing ?

I had two second degree tears and about 15 stitches each. I took the stool softeners religiously and when I finally went it wasn’t nearly as bad as I expected. I think peeing with stitches is definitely worse.

I tore. But no stitches. I prefer to heal naturally.

@tyancyy17, may I ask how that happened, was it natural or was it because of a reason

I had a 4th degree tear I had about 50 stitches it was bad! That’s why I’m able to opt for a c section this time bc it was so bad. I didn’t poop in the hospital I pooped once I got home with no pain medicine worst pain in my life!

@kay.ari_, then pooping after stitches

@kay.ari_, me tearing is huge fear

Minor tear maybe 2 stitches. No problem pooping but you can always take the stool softeners