Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
I literally have to only give my dad and his gf enough for 1 bottle when I drop him off there every Tuesday because last week they were about to give him 6oz in an hour like are you crazy they said because he was crying, play with him give him attention and he won't cry pick him up and walk around with him. I told him he gets 3 oz at 7pm they ended up not giving him the 3 oz till 7:30 and we got there at 8:30 to pick him up and was feeding him again I lost my mind it pisses me off bc he has a schedule and they totally didn't listen
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Mims·
Мама четверых детей
@ethanandkayleensmommy, your welcome dear. Also based off your pic you send looks more like irritation.
This is coming from a mom of a strep carrier who had to get her tonsils removed due to repeat strep. Also myself have allergy issues and get sick during weather changes easily. I hope he feels better soon dear
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Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Are his tonsils causing him to snore? Or are they red as well or patchy? I’d keep an eye for tonsillitis and if it seems his tonsils are causing him issues, I’d give him the antibiotics with some Greek yogurt to help his gut flora
karen·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mims, okay thank you 😊
Mims·
Мама четверых детей
@ethanandkayleensmommy, yes I'd wait it out.
karen·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mims, so I shouldn’t give him the antibiotic just now? Wait a little?
Mims·
Мама четверых детей
Did he have any congestion? Snotty nose? If he isn't complaining I take back the strep comment. Could just be irritated from any drainage. Probably just a cold. Allergies in many are bad in the spring. If it persists past 10 days he may need antibiotics incase it turns to a sinus infection
karen·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mims,
karen·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mims, no he’s not complaining.
Mims·
Мама четверых детей
Is he complaining it hurts?
Mims·
Мама четверых детей
Sounds like strep you should give the antibiotics