@pearce5443, you too chick xxx

@courtniek98x have a lovely day hun xxx

@pearce5443, me neither! Haha and awww lovely xxx

@courtniek98x oh wow! I'm so glad it's not snowing here. I'm not a fan of snow lol. I'm off to my best mates to day to help her with her seating plan for her wedding. Xxx

@pearce5443, yeah if he’s the same today just leave him in his strop 😂I’m good thanks hun it’s snowing here so still in our pjs with the heating on full blast 🙄🙈xxx

@courtniek98x I wish he would listen to reasoning. We will see how the conversation goes today. It was left on a bad note last night and I was very upset 😂.....if he doesn't listen today he can just have his strop and be there or not be there. His problem. Ashton is coming, end of. And my mum has to be there to sit with him in the waiting room like you said. I'm so glad you get it. Thanks hun. Feel loads better after all these lovely ladies helped me confirm I wasn't being a brat (believe it or not I can be sometimes 😂). Hope you're feeling ok xxx

@pearce5443, we don’t get to make ALL the decisions 😂🤦🏼‍♀️ it’s not hard to understand you want your son there to be able to get him involved with your pregnancy and already start forming a bond with his brother/sister and your not just gonna leave him in a waiting room on his own while you have your scan done someone has to watch him. Plus they’ll only allow him in once all your measurements and checks are done xxx

@courtniek98x Yeah, he threw that in my face 🙄😂 he made a point of pointing out how unfair life is that the woman gets to make all the decisions lol xxx

@pearce5443, yeah try to hun then if he’s still being moody just leave it, end of the day it’s your scan and you are carrying the baby you choose who you want there xxx

@courtniek98x now I've calmed down a bit I will try to explain to him calmly again xxx

@pearce5443, oh dear xxx

@courtniek98x I've tried babe. He's acting like a spoilt brat xxx

@pearce5443, just explain to him that it will be just you and him when you first go in and once everything is confirmed it’s all alright then Ashton and your mum can come in just to watch baby on the screen xxx

@courtniek98x that's the reason I wanted my mum to come....so she could sit in the waiting room with him xxx

@pearce5443, I understand your OH is excited and stuff as well but they’ll do the scan and let Ashton in after all measurements and stuff are done so it’s just letting him see the baby on the screen really 😊xxx

@courtniek98x Exactly! It's going to be a massive shock to him I think....i don't think my OH sees that xxx

@pearce5443, definitely! He’s been an only child for 8 years so it’s best to keep him involved and excited xxx

@courtniek98x Exactly hun. I don't want him to feel pushed and out and start resenting the baby before he or she is here. I feel like if he's involved now then he will be able to get excited and feel part of everything and hopefully build a better bond xxx

@melanie-spiritmedium that's exactly what I said to him! I don't understand his problem x

@lexibumpsean exactly what I did. I'm not impressed xx

@firsttimemummy86 he does treat him like his own in some ways and some ways he doesn't. I did try to have words but I found it so hard not to let my emotions get the better of me xx

That’s ridiculous babe he can’t expect you not to take Ashton!! Your mum I could understand but not your son the baby is Ashton’s little brother or sister he’ll be excited and want to see and be involved in everything’s! I take Harper to all my scans xx

I’d understand your son not being there if he was in school but if he’s off he’s got every right to be there and be involved and he’ll probably love it! I take both my kids to my scans x

@lexibumpsean @firsttimemummy86 I will reply to you ladies in the morning. Got myself into a bit of a state and need to calm down and get some sleep I think. Thank you for replying xxx

That's wrong your son should go, how could he say that, does he not treat your son like his own? I mean personally I would be having words with him x

@ezchaz thank you for completely getting it! This is a MASSIVE deal for my son. 1 he's always wanted a brother or sister 2 he has adhd and struggles with certain situations 3 his dad isn't in the picture anymore so I don't want him to feel neglected or pushed out. He has always been my world. Come first before everything. As it should be. My heart is breaking right now....I feel so crap about this. I just want this to be a happy time and my OH is making it difficult. Xx

@abbyrose he will pretend everything is fine tomorrow. Me I can hold a grudge for years....I'm twice as stubborn 😂🤣 xx

@pearce5443 my boyfriend's the same no matter how much you say something they just don't get it and have to be stubborn. Maybe leave it for tonight and try talk to him in the morning about it? Or will he still be the ssme😂xx

@abbyrose he's such a stubborn arse. And sometimes immature and acts like a spoilt brat (which he is)....I'm so annoyed with him right now. I obviously love him and I'm so happy our family is expanding but this has to stop now. He doesn't realise the stress he puts on me. 😔🙄 xx

@pearce5443 just a typical man isn't it😫🙄 just leave him to it and I'm sure when the time comes he will realize that your son needs to be there xx

@abbyrose at this point I'm not even bothered if he comes or not. He can shove it up his arse 😂....my son will not be pushed out. I forgot to mention the reason I wanted my mum there is so she could sit in the waiting room with my son first, so we can check all is ok and then bring him in when we know everything is alright. I'm genuinely dumbfounded with the way he is acting. Like a spoilt brat. Xx

Stick to your guns! If it was my boyfriend I would tell him to f off🤷he needs to be involved so he doesn't feel left out and if he doesn't go it's just immature tbh. Try not to stress for the baby I'm sure when the time comes he will go xx

@nataliielouiseexo @abbyrose @ezchaz I'm that worked up I forgot to tag you all in my reply lol so unsure if you will see it xxx

I'm so hurt by it. I kind of get his problem with my mum being there. Irrespective of his feelings though my son will be there and he does not have a say in that. I've point blank told him that. Idgaf I will never push my son out until this baby is here he is my number one priority. And him being involved and knowing he won't get pushed out is the most important thing to me. I'm so hurt right now. My emotions are all over the place. I don't know what to do. Xxx

He's been unfair with not letting your son come as he should deffo be involved, as for the mom situation I would be the same in my pregnancy my boyfriend's mom was so involved was there in my labour the scans ect and next time I want it to just be us but that's my opinion. If you want your mom there I think he should respect that though and maybe meet you halfway🤷x

wow what's his problem?! I was at the scan of my little brother he should be involved in it x