Am I in the wrong here?
A week before the 4d scan my other half said he didn't wanna come to it because he hates my mom and she wanted to be there. Couple days later he kicked me out I'm now at my moms with no room for our daughter. I went ahead with my 4d scan anyway and he told me the morning of the scan he wanted to be there so I tried to get him there. My parents obviously wouldn't allow him in the car with them to the scan after he kicked me out 7 months pregnant. I asked if he had money to get us there and back as I don't have a penny to my name and I said we would go just me and him. He said he didn't have any money so I said could he lend some of someone he said it was impossible but the same night lent 50 quid to go on the piss. I went for my scan anyway on Saturday and now he's saying I should've rebooked the scan so we could both go when he had the money to get there and back. He's now asking for all the pictures I got with the scan to be torn up and to rebook a scan for us both to go. He even wants to take the picture my dad bought off my dad. Am I in the wrong. Should I have rebooked? I don't know what to think. Sorry for the extremely long post!!! Xx
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Yeah I agree with @briony1994 if he turns up call the police! It's harassment. You don't need this at 7 months pregnant can't imagine how you're feeling. Xx
I'm sorry but what an idiot! No one deserve that level of guilt & manipulation. He sounds like a nasty man.
No no no this behaviour is so wrong on so many levels and is abusive and controlling! I have been here Hun and it doesn't end well I'm afraid ! I have the police reports to prove it! U need to stay away from him before this esculates to something either more serious or a report going across to social care. You need to protect u and your baby. His behaviour is so out of order makes me cross! Call the police if he kicks off! Before someone else does! I'm afraid it won't bode well on you in the future if u allow that sort of behaviour or him kicking off. I feel for u I really do.
He's being extremely childish @gemmajoanne & I wouldn't allow him to be making any decisions regarding scans or your baby with how he's behaving. He's trying to manipulate you & if this is how he treats women / mothers of his children, I'm not surprised his ex stopped contact. Sounds like your better off without him. As hard as it may be if you still have feelings. He sounds toxic.
he kicked you out at 7 months pregnant because you wanted your mum at the scan....any decent bloke would of ignored any feelings he had towards your mum and out you and your child first instead he's kicked off because he hasn't got his own way....I'd tell him to do one he's obviously not mature enough x
Sorry but he's an arsehole. You seriously don't need that drama. Xx
He's saying he had a right to be there and that I stopped him from coming the scan. I never once told him he wasn't allowed to be there I only said my dad wouldn't allow him in the car after kicking me out. Oh god my life right now friggin sucks! Xx
No lovely you are most certainly not in the wrong. He's obviously trying to manipulate you into feeling bad. Dont let him do that! Don't destroy the pictures of your little one put your baby first. He kicked you out he has no right to tell you what you can and cant do he can't treat you like crap and then expect you to take him back. By the sounds of it you're much better off without him he sounds like an Ahole <3
tell him to piss off!! if he acted the same towards the other woman i dont blame her runnin a mile !
I just feel really bad at the same time because his ex took his daughter away from him before and he hasn't seen her for 6 years. I didn't purposely go to the scan without him to spite him xx
I'd never destroy pictures of my babies just because some twat told me to. No matter how much I loved him my babies would come first. He's been selfish and very childish. Put him in his place and do things on your terms not his. Hope you're ok
Wow he sounds like an absolute d*ckhead!! Ditch him..
No, he's in the wrong!! Don't let him make you think otherwise!! And do not get rid of the photos of your baby, sorry but he sounds like such a selfish little twat! You deserve way better xx
Defiantly shouldn't of rebooked! in my eyes he kicked you out he has made his decision. He sounds like a right idiot in my eyes to be honest xx
It sounds like he is out of order. Not you or your family! x
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