Sometimes I think if I have to do it all by myself, then why not do it all...by myself. I thought the point of being in…
Sometimes I think if I have to do it all by myself, then why not do it all...by myself. I thought the point of being in a relationship was to have a partner. Yeah he works and I stay home, but wait, I have a part time job, I have money in the bank that’s paid over half our bills the past year, I’m a full time college student and oh yea, my 24/7 job, RAISING OUR KID( and his two kids that we have about 6 out of the 7 days of the week!) Maybe I shouldn’t bitch, I know he does a lot, but damn is it frustrating.
Sharmane Trejo·
Bitch all you like, you're entitled to get that stress off yo chest (hey, I'm a poet! :D)
Unless you guys have had a discussion about your roles at home, I don't see why you should be forced to fit a mold, on his days off it should be 50/50 especially since you've stated two of the children are not biologically yours, it isn't your sole responsibility to take care of his children, plus, they need that father figure support there, and not just as a breadwinner.
Have you brought up how you feel to him?
Ariel Bruce ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@leroydoom, poet and ya didn’t know it! Lol and ohhh yeah, we’ve talked about it. “I stay home, my job is to cook, clean, and take care of the kids.” I don’t want to stay home. I went back to work full time after having our baby. And HE couldn’t take it because she seemed so sad, so I stayed home. I mean I love the shit out of her, but I need a break sometimes too! I’ve been away from her maybe 8 hours consecutively ONCE! Other than that I have our daughter, with the exception of maybe 10 hours a week (due to working, grocery shopping, or taking one of his boys somewhere)24/7! Like today he woke up went to work for 8 hours, then decided he wanted to buy a truck and took off for another 8 hour journey after coming home for 15 seconds, leaving me with 2 of the 3 kids. He would fall out if I tried that. He hands her to me instantly after being gone at work for 5 hours! Then I feel like a shitty mom because I get so stressed about being the only one to take care of our daughter.
Ally Cardona ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Ally Cardona ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Totally fee you, sometimes I feel I try my best to put all my worth in. Raising kids is not easy, why he’s not doing it. They wish they could but they know shit would go on fire if they did. Lol
Ariel Bruce ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@alejandra.cardona, yep! I’d say you’re right! It’s so easy to swoop in and be daddy when they just had a nap, diaper change, bottle, bathed, and a breathing treatment. Let’s snuggle. Doing any real work? Nope!
Ally Cardona ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@lizabeth.1294, tell me about it. They do try, each partner as their qualities.. the are great at snuggling. I need snuggles lol my partner doesn’t care lol.