Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
EDIT : this post is very long. I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she found out I was pregnant by him she tried to make everyone plus him believe that I cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else but even though she said that he still didn’t believe her which made me really happy! I wrote to her every single day since she kicked me out the hospital and she gave me nothing but hell and lies and even said she didn’t want to know about her own granddaughter. This story is extremely long so to not bore you guys out let me get to the point, he told me I could go to his house for Father’s Day and bring our babygirl and he wants to feel baby in the belly move BUT I was never allowed in his house cause of his mother and father. am I wrong for not wanting to step a foot in a house full of people who enjoyed to make my life miserable for months or better yet told me that she wants nothing to do with my daughter, and Is trying to convince him that baby on the way isn’t his?? I told him we can meet up with us aid (he needs a aid due to complications from his accident) and go out for dinner but he doesn’t want that. He already has a 5 year old daughter that his family adores ( but they can’t stand my daughter ) he wants them both together but I told him I don’t feel comfortable being in a house full of people who literally prayed for him to not remember me or his daughter! No one has apologized or tried to make things better just worse. I tried to make arrangements for us but he thinks I just don’t want his family around my daughter and he’s damn right! Those people will never get to be around my daughter ever again after all this stress they’ve caused!! Someone people tell me I’m not over exaggerating 😥
So I need to vent because I can't post anything on Facebook or Snapchat about how irritated I am. So my ex said that he plans on staying in the military for another 4-5 years or 8-10, he was really stepping on top of his words. He might got to NC, Italy, or Alaska but he definitely wants out of California. He said since he's going to school for family law he already knows what to do and how to do it about getting custody of our daughter. He said that if I don't agree to anything he wants, I'll look bad and the court will just give him what he wants because California is a backwards liberal state and they won't favor me since I'm on disability and can't provide for my daughter. He's just pretty much saying he will get his way and I'll be screwed. The only thing going for him now is he finally got his license but still has no vehicle, no house to provide for her and assumes that the daycare on base will watch a breastfed newborn for free. I'm going in on Thursday to get the self help with the paperwork but I'm feeling super irritated that he automatically assumes he will get his way because we are a "backwards liberal state." 😡😡😡😡
Me and my hubby have decided that after our daughter is born we want to help a family out and carry their little one. I have always wanted to help a family that can’t have their own kids.
Bethany·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Sounds like hes just making excuses hun! He shouldnt care what his family think. If he wants to make a.good life for 'his daughter' then he doesnt need to get his family involved. But doesnt mean he shouldnt be involved either. This is what men do when they want no responsibility for something they've created. Just cut ties with him hun...you dont need him stressing you out. You seem to have a lovely current partner thats there for you both. If he wants to have contact with her when shes older..than maybe give him that chance. But for now..just focus on you xx
Courtney Sutton·
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@winterbaby95 he said also his friend told him to block me on everything but he doesn't want to because he wants to see Delilah grow up... Like be a dad then then you can watch her grow up
Courtney Sutton·
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I've told him I'd never stop him unless he messed her about like my dad did to me because there's no way I'd put my daughter through what I did with my dad
Bethany·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@linkofhyrule You cant watch your child grow up if you dont want to be a dad. Doesnt make sense 🤔 Maybe he doesnt know what he wants. Maybe hes scared about being a dad? But he shouldve thought about that before leaving you x
Bethany·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@linkofhyrule And maybe it was because of his current girlfriend...he didnt want her to find out about you or that he had a child? Xx
Courtney Sutton·
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@winterbaby95 His Girlfriend Knows And Has Been Speaking To Me And She's Playing With Him Until He Tells Her Which I'm Stay Out of but that's mainly the reason he messaged me because he was paranoid I was talking to her but I'm playing dumb because I'm not getting involved but he's honestly so vile he called her a tone of names said she was obsessed and wouldn't leave him alone and then proceeded to send me pictures of her body which I said I didn't want to see as she probably sent those in confidence to him. He also made me to be such a bad person aka according to him i was a bitch, slut and never left him alone😂😂 Makes me sick to know there's men out there like him