Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Baby Shower Dress?! Shopping has been difficult and I can't decide which dress for my shower? Keeping gender a surprise!
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
So I just found out I'm pregnant with my second baby on Thursday and I told my mom on Friday after my fiance told his mom and dad and today I was talking with my mom and if baby is a boy I'm not going to have a baby shower but if it's a girl it's going to be a small baby shower and my mom told me that I can't have another baby shower that it's now how it works. So do I have a shower or not? Any advice?
Sometimes I don't want to be a mom I'm sitting in my room folding laundry, the washer, dryer, and dishwasher all running in the back. My oldest is in the living room watching toy story while my youngest is in the kitchen standing on his chair in front of the refrigerator drinking water straight from the dispenser. He slept well last night except for the random yelling in the middle of the night. I still haven't showered. I run my fingers through my hair and feel it greasy, "that's right I gotta shower and get ready before I have to go into town in a couple hours" i think to my self. I begin to think of some other random things when my thoughts are interrupted by the constant yelling of "mom" by both my kids. I look around the room and the kitchen. It's a mess. Regardless of the fact that I had just cleaned it. My husband will be home and see the mess. Once again think that I don't do anything around the house. Sometimes I don't want to be a mom. When I look at the careless girl walking in the store. Looking at things for herself. Sometimes I don't want to be a mom, when I remember I only have one good bra. Sometimes I don't want to be a mom when I am so mentally and emotionally drained and exhausted i can't even remember my own thoughts. Sometimes i don't want to be a mom when I say I'm a stay at home mom to an old friend who's now doing what I always wanted to do. Maybe I'm selfish. Maybe I'm not fit to be a mother. Maybe I'm the worlds worst mother. I feed my kids, dress them, try and raise them as a good addition to the world, I love them. I tell them they are my everything. And yet deep inside. Sometimes I don't want to be a mom. And it kills me inside every single day.
Lisa·
Мама четверых детей
Now my boyfriend thinks I'm crazy when I tell him all of this. 😂
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@starr86 my boyfriends mom told me that to lol
Lisa·
Мама четверых детей
I'm a mutt (hispanic and white) lol and the hispanic side would always say not to go out in cold weather with wet hair because your face can go crooked and stay like that. 😕😑
Rikki🌙·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@jaxons.mom09 right! Lol
Jess🌹♥️·
Мама сына-младенца
@rikki.ferguson I think it's common sense lol just not the not showering at all.
Rikki🌙·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@jaxons.mom09 I'm white and my mom said all this stuff too.
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
@bunny713 ok yeah i think thats ok A.D. long as u dont go out in the cold
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@larubia2723 I wash my hair but don't go outside when it's wet
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Maybe not washing ya hair if u sick
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@larubia2723 idk to me germs get you sick not the weather
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@miniwolfe oh yea for 3 days I was sick and I took a lot of baths! My body hurt and everything !
Jess🌹♥️·
Мама сына-младенца
@bunny713 yeah never heard of the not showering at all lol.
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Think that going outside when is cold or with wet hair is what might get u sick it might but is them germs ppl gta worry about frfr
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
But yeah what i meant to say is Hispanics q
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
I coudlve swearn i said is a hispanic thing . not just a mexican thing
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@miniwolfe idk it's weird she tells is not to shower I stepped on something nasty and I was washing my feet and my mil was like "WHAT ARE YOU DOING LAUREN YOUR SICK "
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
@jaxons.mom09 yes that what i said
Lauren ·
Мама сына-младенца
@larubia2723 @jaxons.mom09 I understand not going outside after showering but she tells us not to shower at all but my mom and doctor tells me to soak or shower so the steam can help clear me up.
Jess🌹♥️·
Мама сына-младенца
i'm Hispanic and my mom said don't be going outside if you're sick, or outside right after a shower. and get in a hot shower/bath to clear a stuffed up nose or sore throat. 🤷🏽♀️
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
My italian father in law showed me this
Jeny Laielli·
Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
I think is a hispanic thing cuz my mom always put that in my head dont :( outside with your hair wet or ull get sick cux is too cold but really is all about germs