So earlier I asked my OH if he could participate in cleaning the house more because all he's done this week is wash about 4 dishes. I asked so nicely and yet he gets in a strop, says I apparently want to get back at him whatever that means and takes himself off to bed without a word 😔 exaggerate much
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling Me he asked Me beforehand I said I didn't have to pee then. Then he goes on to tell Me to hurry up and turn My hotspot on so he can use it. I get up slowly because I'm in a bit of aching this evening then he yells at Me to hurry up..I make My way slowly down the hallway still getting yelled at. I don't know why he thinks I should do anything for him! This is so hard Y'all! I fight back tears every day *darn hormones*
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
men 😠 probably gone to bed to get out of doing the cleaning, I've asked mine to hoover twice this week and ended up doing it myself lol x
Kimberley Heaton·
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I get this everyday, I give up asking him!😂x
Sara-Louise·
Thats exactly what he's done @natalie.louise89 I would have shouted up ita be waiting for you in the morning! Lol
Alisha Pomells ·
@natalie.louise89 he's an asshole lol it's like it doesn't even register the words just fly over his head x @kimheaton lol I'm almost there but I don't see why we have to do it all the damn time it's a joint household x @sara-lou86 I was tempted to do it but I've left it for him to do tomorrow lol I would've shouted it but my daughter's sleeping in the room 😅
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@mum2sky @sara-lou86 god forbid they wash dishes that THEY have used .. wash and dry clothes that are THEIRS.. or clean toilets that THEY also use! drives me insane I did leave the dishes for 2 days before and he eventually did them but only cause he didn't realise I was trying to make a point that if I didn't do them they wouldn't get done, must be 8 weeks since he's done any now lol 🙈🙈 x
Alisha Pomells ·
@natalie.louise89 don't even her me started on strikes. It never lasts only household lol so I don't even bother. I just leave his stuff. Dishes I can't be bothered to separate so I do it most times but I'm not doing it tonight x