So I unexpectedly got an interview on Tuesday, it's a waitressing job with an old manager. Now if I go for the job and get it, my boyfriend and I can probably get an apartment and end this place to place nonsense. However, I'm DREADING leaving Aiden. He's six months old so I've had plenty of time with him but we're both so attached to each other. He's still breastfed, he won't take the bottle for anything and the minute he doesn't see me he starts crying, then when I get back from let's say the kitchen, there's the biggest smile on his face. He's so attached I'm so attached. Idk what to do, it'll be so beneficial for our family but I know it'll be hard on the both of us. ☹️
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
Paternity leave
How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
something is wrong! her dad never came home last night! he would never do that knowing he's gotta watch his daughter while I'm at work... glad I can bring her to my job and my parents will come get her but I'm so scared right now!
You guys will have to split eventually no matter how hard it may be. It would be good for both of you in the long run! It’ll make getting off of a long day at work that much more rewarding :)