Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Asking for donations for a wedding? Someone on my Facebook page has started a Go Fund Me, so that they can raise money for their wedding.
Since my husband's a SAHD am I going to have to pay him if I kick him out of our house? It's our house because it's in both of our names, but all of the bills are paid by me and in my name. He's telling me I can't kick him out because he has no car or money to start off on his own. And he's also saying he will take the title to my car if I kick him out because he sold his car to buy me mine. Which I don't believe anyone cares about because this car is in my name, I don't think anyone cares who got it for me lol. So just wondering if anyone is familiar in anything like this. Nothing's set in stone obviously, just continuous arguing out of nowhere the past few days and I'd really like to educate myself on my options so I can be aware of all sides and not ever feel trapped in my own house, which is how he made me feel tonight.
So he fucking cheated..... Current mood:💔🙍🏻🔫🔥
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Mia·
I am actually guilty of this too but mine directly went to collections 👀
Monica·
😱 they won't reduce it at all?!? Can you at least work out a payment plan?? That's ridiculous.
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@nomaci, I'm hoping they will. I'm just angry that he let it get to this point. And it scares me for the future, for other bills or anything else. He just lets things go. If I hadn't called for him we wouldn't even know that we owed this much!
Monica·
Can you take over dealing with the bills? My fiance usually handles bills because I have a horrible memory when it comes to those.
Ro·
Мама троих детей
And when you dont pay in time you get fines .. I would call again and see if they can reduce or fix problem
Ro·
Мама троих детей
@muvamia what doesn't go to collections now and days my name should be engraved on their wall at collection office