Im in desperate need of advice. Im 37w3d pregnant with my first child (girl) i was living with my parents for the past 2…

If youre not going to temporarily move back in with your parents without your fiancé then make the best of the situation that you can. Clean the camper up, prep it for baby, and stop stressing yourself so much momma. Maybe your parents will come around once the baby is born. I know it sounds crazy to bring the baby home to a camper but as a mother you do what you need to do. My mom brought us home to a one room cabin with no running water and a wood stove. We lived that way for 16 years. Not saying you will... Eventually youll get your own place. Im just saying if moving back in with them alone is not an option then make the best of your situation until it changes. And get you something to eat. Do it for the baby, hungry or not. The baby will take what it needs from you but youll be left feeling dehydrated and sickly so take care of yourself 😊

@roxxipup249, no problem love. If you need help finding a place, lmk I'll look

@bryannajneal92 thank you for your advice. Lots to decide on

You have the golden opportunity to even have him stay with y'all. My dad does not play tht at all. Even tho they're buying bs, let that be motivation for you to move forward. I see tht you're young. I'm really worried so please don't take this as a shot. I want you to make the best decision. For you and the baby. Not saying eff him, but he's a man. He has to do what he gotta do. You're a woman with a baby. Go talk to your doctor too. I really don't want you going down tht road. I really do care tho love. This is my first child ( at 25 ) but when I was younger I was very stubborn and learned the hard way. I don't want you going out like that. The real world is cruel. They don't care about your car or his feelings. So this is only preparing you for the future to be strong.

@roxxipup249, maybe the car can hold off because it'll be awhile. Plus if someone see you in the street with a baby child services could be called. As a woman we wanna depend on a guy you have a child with. However you have to make a plan with yourself. Gotta think about the baby more than him for the future

@roxxipup249, you think it's best if he just pays it? Idk where you live but I can try to find some places. But again you may not be able to live with him momentarily because usually women have their own shelters?

@bryannajneal92 Because I want to go where he goes im not welcomed back home

@roxxipup249, Oh wow! Smh so now they decide to put you through hell at 37 weeks?! Wtf??? Are they kicking you out or just him?

@roxxipup249, ahh.. okay. Did they suddenly start asking?

@bryannajneal92 $200 That could be going towards our debts and other assistances is being used for sister. They already bought a horse and a fence with our past rent money and now want to buy her more things. We initiallt had an agreement that would be there until our expenses been paid off but at this rate thatll take years instead of months. Meanwhile were living in a basment thats not up to code for a living enviroment and will be very dangerous for a baby if certain things arent fixed. They werr supposed to use the money to fix up the basement and theyve failed to do so since we moved in

@bryannajneal92 we still have bills to pay off from the last place we lived in (moved out in May) hes our only source of income until i get a job after tbe baby is born. Im also dependinf on him to pay to habe my car fixed so that i can drive it to a future job

@roxxipup249, Can't tell you what to do. How I was raised, if a man is at the house he has to pay. Again, that's just me. I don't want you on the street and neither should your bf. If you want, call for family shelters. Let me tell you momma, $200 ain't shit compared to the things you gotta pay for once you're in the street. Take it from a woman with experience. Why doesn't he want to give her $200 if he's living there tbh? You have other options but I feel rn this is easier until you get on your feet. It's not like you guys aren't having a baby on the way. It's annoying, I get it fully. But not doing this is only gonna make your situation worse. Don't make yourself struggle. As your bf he shouldn't want you to neither.

@bryannajneal92 we help out with groceries every week and i give them everything i get witb wic and i help keep their housr clean everyday

@roxxipup249, Eh... I can totally understand that. As for me I HAD to pay rent. My parents are old school so if nobody's paying rent or anything they have to leave. Are you guys or him paying for anything? Don't think I'm judging or anything because I don't like how they'll try to kick you out. But to shut them up, or if he's not paying for anything I'd say chalk it up and give it to them. So you both have a place to stay.

If youre not going to temporarily move back in with your parents without your fiancé then make the best of the situation that you can. Clean the camper up, prep it for baby, and stop stressing yourself so much momma. Maybe your parents will come around once the baby is born. I know it sounds crazy to bring the baby home to a camper but as a mother you do what you need to do. My mom brought us home to a one room cabin with no running water and a wood stove. We lived that way for 16 years. Not saying you will... Eventually youll get your own place. Im just saying if moving back in with them alone is not an option then make the best of your situation until it changes. And get you something to eat. Do it for the baby, hungry or not. The baby will take what it needs from you but youll be left feeling dehydrated and sickly so take care of yourself 😊

@bryannajneal92 Theyre not trying to work anything out with either of us. They won't talk to us. He refused to give my family $200 for my sisters school clothes so he could use the money to get more things we need for the baby

@roxxipup249, Yeah I know you're in a dilemma rn. I'm only saying this because you're pregnant. The only other option if you don't have family is a shelter. Are they trying to at least work it out with him? Idk how old you are but it seems like they're treating you like a child. I don't wanna get in your business too much or I'm not sure if you want to put it out there for ppl to see. But, is it something he's doing hurting the family or you?!

@jq129847 his family doesnt have enough room. My family gets so involved with drama they may not even take my side

Is it possible to stay with his parents? Or maybe another relative just until the baby is born and for you guys to come up with a plan?

@bryannajneal92 yes because i want to be with him despite their opinions

@roxxipup249 you're welcome hun...good luck to you both💖🙏

Omg! First things first, are they only kicking you out because of him? I'm not trying to sound selfish but as of rn you need a place to stay and have food. The last thing I want you to do is stay in shelters. Even with that, a lot of them don't require men in the same shelter as women.

@juliaschade41 a good option to consider. Thank you

@roxxipup249 I understand. My parents said the same thing about mine but he's locked up so I am doing it all alone. Im not judging at all, but what if its for the best for your child right now? Stress can cause harm, and you're so close to having the baby, the baby needs a roof over its head. What if you move back in for now, while your fiance figures out living conditions, and then after baby is born, you move right back out. And your fiance can be at the hospital with you. At that point, screw your parents, cuz they can't make him not be there, its your choice at that point. I'm just saying to look at all of your options and do what's best for the child. I know your fiance would understand and it wouldn't be for that long. Only maybe 2 weeks of being a part, but only for your body not to stress tok hard for the baby's sake. You're almost to the finish line, y'all can do this.

@juliaschade41 if i stay with them they wont let me see him. They wont let him come onto the property. I dont want to do any of this without him

Im sure the doctor would check on the baby. But not sure what they could do about you stressing. They'd probably just advise against it. Only you can do something about your stress hun. It is hard. I try not too myself....

Could you live with your parents if you and your fiance weren't together for the moment? I almost had to do the same thing. You gotta think about the baby first and do what's best for your body.