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Мама сына (1 год)

*rant warning* Beyond upset right now. Tell me how this is right. I ask my boyfriend to spend some time with me and…

*rant warning*


Beyond upset right now. Tell me how this is right. I ask my boyfriend to spend some time with me and watch a couple shows, his response is that hes going to play video games until 2 am. Mind you this was at 12 midnight and he hasnt even started playing yet. He played for 4 hours earlier while i sat and took care of our son while he ignored everything. He literally couldnt even stop for 2 freaking minutes to heat some food up for our son while i was keeping him busy with mickey mouse. He says well watch shows together at 2 am when hes done playing his game. But him and i both know that shit aint gonna happen. Hes a morning person, not a night person. So i know the very second i turn on the show to watch it with him hes just not gonna care and go to sleep. But he can play his stupid game for 2 hours until 2 am and be wide the fuck awake. And then he gets mad at me for feeling hurt. His priorities are fucked up beyond belief and im getting so fed up with it. *rant over*

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mathews132

becky

Многодетная мама (6 детей)

Hide the power cord when he's at work and blame the baby 🤣😋

mommabear2babybearliam

ashley

Мама сына (1 год)

@mathews132 i wish it were that easy. Lmao.

mfmf

M & M

@mommabear2babybearliam how is it not that easy? I wouldn't even blame the baby. I'd just take the cord and act like I know nothing about it. He's only doing what's allowed. I'm sure you've told him you need help. If he's not helping with the baby, why is he there?

mommabear2babybearliam

ashley

Мама сына (1 год)

@chocolatemomma its easy in the fact that its just a cord and i can grab it and hide while keeping a straight face. Not easy because that wont make him help any more. He would run around the house pissed off and most likely even help less. Dont ger me wrong, hes a good dad. But his priorities are fucked beyond belief. Ive talked to him about it before and it just so happens that his nosy sister was listening and she came barging in putting her unwanted 2 sense in. Saying "ashley, this is what he did before liam and even before you. You cant change him so i wouldnt even bother" i said right back to het that before our son and even before him i had a lot of different hobbies/ things i did. That i dropped over half to take care of our son. He needs a major wake up call and hid family always sticks up for him saying it's who he is.

mfmf

M & M

@mommabear2babybearliam, well, maybe he should be with his family where he can be himself. He obviously needs to grow up and realize when you become a parent, it comes with new responsibilities and priorities.

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