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Alright, my son is 6 months old and I receive WIC so I had to cooperate with child support. His father has seen him…

Alright, my son is 6 months old and I receive WIC so I had to cooperate with child support. His father has seen him twice in his life, is not on the birth certificate, and was not even at his birth- or the hospital. Now that I had to file for cs he's filed for paternity and time sharing. My issue is he wants every single weekend overnight- he lives in Georgia I live in Florida. I'm ok with every other weekend once our son gets older, but not this young. They have no bond at all, and our son also has special needs that his father has chosen to know nothing about, when I tried to talk to him about it he ignored me. I have four different addresses that he could possibly be living at, and about five different phone numbers. I've talked to a couple lawyers and one told me that he could possibly get every other weekend, does this seem right? I'm ok with it but I would prefer our son be older and that they have a bonding period first

Hey, honestly there is always a possibility that the father can get every week. Him and his attorney has every right to ask for it but its ultimately up to a judge as he/she sees fit. I also think that creating a bond shouldn't be something that has to wait you know. Wait long enough and that bond will probably never happen. And I also think you should bring the fact that the father hasn't been concerned about the baby medical condition because up in court if you want to. Its really up to you and I hope everything works out for the best.

N.17.07.2017

*sorry for that unnecessary "because" lol

Kilee J17.07.2017

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I want them to create a bond before he takes him 5 hours away for the weekend. I've tried to get him to see him so many times that honesty I just stopped asking him to come and I just text him pictures and important info at this point, I never get a response though

Samantha 😘17.07.2017

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I would mention supervised visitations where the father has to drive to you and get a room. At least at first. Your baby knows you and I think sending him hours away to be with a complete stranger would be too stressful for little one. And the fact he seems to not have a steady address or phone number shows immaturity and I would worry for your son's safety especially with him being special needs.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but…

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????

How to Handle Noisy Neighbors Complaining About Toddler's Walking?

So, our downstairs neighbors have been banging on the ceiling every time our son walks. It scares him every time because it’s loud and he can feel it. I’m about over it. He’s TWO. He’s learning how to walk quietly but it’s hard for him. After about the 10th bang, I usually just put him in his high chair or his room. But I shouldn’t have to trap my kid in his own house bc of rude grown adults.