Alright, my son is 6 months old and I receive WIC so I had to cooperate with child support. His father has seen him twice in his life, is not on the birth certificate, and was not even at his birth- or the hospital. Now that I had to file for cs he's filed for paternity and time sharing. My issue is he wants every single weekend overnight- he lives in Georgia I live in Florida. I'm ok with every other weekend once our son gets older, but not this young. They have no bond at all, and our son also has special needs that his father has chosen to know nothing about, when I tried to talk to him about it he ignored me. I have four different addresses that he could possibly be living at, and about five different phone numbers. I've talked to a couple lawyers and one told me that he could possibly get every other weekend, does this seem right? I'm ok with it but I would prefer our son be older and that they have a bonding period first
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I want them to create a bond before he takes him 5 hours away for the weekend. I've tried to get him to see him so many times that honesty I just stopped asking him to come and I just text him pictures and important info at this point, I never get a response though
*sorry for that unnecessary "because" lol
Hey, honestly there is always a possibility that the father can get every week. Him and his attorney has every right to ask for it but its ultimately up to a judge as he/she sees fit. I also think that creating a bond shouldn't be something that has to wait you know. Wait long enough and that bond will probably never happen. And I also think you should bring the fact that the father hasn't been concerned about the baby medical condition because up in court if you want to. Its really up to you and I hope everything works out for the best.
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I would mention supervised visitations where the father has to drive to you and get a room. At least at first. Your baby knows you and I think sending him hours away to be with a complete stranger would be too stressful for little one. And the fact he seems to not have a steady address or phone number shows immaturity and I would worry for your son's safety especially with him being special needs.