Sooo I've noticed this thing I do as my son gets older and is away from me more often. My family refers to it as micro-mommying . I just don't trust people to do the things I would do especially when it comes to my son. I am trying to reel it in but am finding it so hard, take tonight for example. My brother has my son at soccer practice. He is six. It's not that serious but I want him to feel he has the positive support he needs for times he is feeling a bit down or praise for when he nails it. I know what your thinking "let it go!" right? Easier said than done. How do you ladies cope with this? Do you even do it at all? Please send help and chocolate.
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@gabriellerose .my oldest was in gifted program from kindergarten because..i was always talking.teaching him he spoke full sentences.my 2 nd son. Always did good in school as well and especially sports a natural...I believe all kids need words of encouragement daily
Oh yeah. She hasn't kept my kids and wonders why. She said it isnt that big of a deal. Yeah until you kill my baby. Since your not worried, neither am I about you keeping them.
@sherrynygirl, my mom was the same. Maybe we are kinda compensating for that? Glad to know u understand tho
@beebaby, you know what that is such a scary thing though. I was at a bday party recently and one of the kids asked me if the cake had nuts in it. Well I was like the f if I know let me find out tho and it turns out it did. What if that kid hadn't said anything to me?! I wasn't hosting the party! Things like that I feel it's okay. If my mil did that I would do nuts (No pun intended) so I feel your pain!
@brittersweet83. In understand..my mom wasn't motherly ir grandmotherly.In my opinion being a mom over 21 yrs...no one takes care of my children like i do..!yes kids need positive vibes and words of encouragement
I do the same. My kids have allergies and my MIL still tried to give my kids milk and peanut butter
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
@sherrynygirl, this is how we roll. If you talk to them with baby talk that's what they are gonna mimic. Why not start them early and now our 6 year old speaks very well. He did struggle a bit at first but it's all good just gotta persist.