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Ever since I have had Nevaeh I have so much more respect for myself. When she looks at me I just feel so empowered and…

Ever since I have had Nevaeh I have so much more respect for myself. When she looks at me I just feel so empowered and so whole.

I have also noticed my SO has done so good with her like extremely well and loves on her constantly.

But I can't help but not feel the same anymore, I know things have changed and we're looking forward but I have been making obvious excuses for him.. and his behavior.

I didn't deserve to be lied to constantly, cheated on, told I'm not shit, I don't deserve him, I don't deserve his time, effort etc.

He hasn't disrespected me since Iv had her all smiles all love all commitment. How long will this last?

I don't know why I'm so down, I just look at him and can't help but wonder why the hell I put up with it so long.

I care for him don't get me wrong, but I look at my baby and I immediately think,

Who the hell is he? Who is HE to do those things to me? Who is HE to hurt my feelings? WHO does he think he is?

Maybe it's just my hormones but I hope it passes because I want to try and work on things, but then again, maybe the damage has been done.

Its automatic to think like that because we as mothers don't want daughters especially to end up with men that would treat them like crap so why do we put up with it? I go back and forth all the time with myself with the guy that I am with no he does not hit me no he does not call me out of my name no he does not disrespect me but sometimes I would like to be treated like I am special to him like I want him to be more affectionate i want to feel loved. And who ever my daughter is with i want her to hsve the same. What my problem is is that I don't speak up enough. But when I do the guy I am with does listen I just have to keep repeating myself LOL like every time I want to go out of date I have to bring it up. Then we finally go out... it will be nice if he wouldn't bring it up as well so I don't feel like I'm the only one that actually wants to have fun in this relationship otherwise it's just business pay bills take care of the kids go to work over and over and no actual relationship. But as long as your guy is trying to work it out then I will still work on it. Just dont forget to speak up for yourself like me.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Creeped out! A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that…

Creeped out! A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped out and grossed out. Ugh. What would you do in this situation? I've reported this to my manager.

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

What's annoying you at the moment??

What's annoying you at the moment?? Girls who blatantly claim, "I'm gonna use my looks to my advantage" really annoy me, and people who post political things on social media, also annoys me!

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates…

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.