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Haley Edwards
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I really need some advice. I'm fighting with myself tonight. I'm a ftm and I stay home with our son. I babysit a little…

I really need some advice. I'm fighting with myself tonight. I'm a ftm and I stay home with our son. I babysit a little 4 year old and also sell scentsy (not advertising). I've been considering going back to work to help my husband with bills and having extra money but I just can't make myself leave Nolan with anyone. I've thought about maybe finding something where I could go in after my husband gets off so he can be with our son but he gets off at 4/5pm everyday so I doubt there would be much I could do. Any advice and ideas would be greatly appreciated!

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a unit rep at a hospital. They have everything shifts.

txyogagirl

Leah

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@marinewifey16, honestly I always say make more or spend less and if I was u I would cut back on my bills re-evaluate my budget before u leave baby bc u can't trust anyone these days and u won't get that time back. We just had a group chat on budgeting maybe u would like to join or I'm happy to share tips.

lindseebee

lindseebee

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Why not find a couple more kids to babysit?

nicholas0512

Ashley

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There are evening reception jobs you could look into also retail stores have evening hours also have flexibility. Cleaning companies work at night as well. @marinewifey16

gabyjohnson429

gabby johnson

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I waited till my son was 9 months old. As for the moment im on day shift and my husband night. It tough but im the type of person. Who can't trust nobody to watch my baby. Like watching the news really got me not trusting nobody seeing babysitters abuse kids. Nah im good. It's hard when one person pays the bills. But life will work out for you hun :) enjoy the vaca for the time being :]

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?