And it's not his co worker. It's some girl he went to high school with and what upsets me the most is that the girl is known as a hoe (not trying to be mean or offend any one) but it's true and even she admits it & doesn't care .

Right?? My bf says I'm exaggerating wtf. So I asked him what would he do or how would he feel if I did the same thing and he said he would leave me. So stupid

I would be upset. Only females my husband talks to is his sister, two aunts and grandmother. Other than that he texts and calls co-workers only, who are all male. Me and my husband don't text or call the opposite sex unless their family or friends we both know who are married as well. Plus we go through each other phones whenever we feel like it and we also have each other FB, email and any other social media account passwords. So if I wanted to I could either ask him for his phone, which he will gladly hand over, or log on to his Facebook but I never do nor do I think I would unless he gave me a reason not to trust him.

I would definitely be upset. The only exceptions in my marriage would be family members (of course), and a coworker IF the conversation really is just work related. Otherwise, like the other ladies are saying, what is he hiding? That is what would be going thru my mind!

It's kinda rude and disrespectful, don't you think? If it's about work , then can talk at work about it. Just my views though

Definitely not putting up with that.

Yes I mind. He better not even think about it. Besides why does he need to talk to other females? Furthermore, why when you are not at home? That's all a No No. I'm sure he wouldn't like that if the tables were turned. @lovehope25,

Depends on who the females are, if it's strictly for work then I don't care. If it's for personal pleasure then yes I care. We both agreed before we got married to not have friends of the opposite sex, it just causes issues. Couple friends are ok though. I'd be a little upset if he's just doing it when I wasn't home, what doesn't he want me to hear?