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Miriah Montana
Miriah Montana
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (11 нед.)

Fiancé dad is mad that I want to buy new things for this baby and I got snotty when he asked what happen to my sons…

Fiancé dad is mad that I want to buy new things for this baby and I got snotty when he asked what happen to my sons stuff. Never come up against me and my babies. Told my fiancé I need a cosleep because the baby will be sleeping with me for the first six months. He was like no that isn't happening. I was like umm what and we had to fight it out in front of his dad. Ohh well I'm about that safety! So yes If I want a new nice car seat you better bet your ass im gonna get it.

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mama_banks

Laura Banks

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (17 нед.)

Car seats are only good for so long so I would get a new one for each kid no matter how close in age they are. Besides it's yours and your fiancé kids not his dads. As mama and daddy you'll decide what's right.

mimiroxy16

Miriah Montana

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (11 нед.)

@mama_banks, I want the Chicco one that goes from five pound until they are like three. Because it will be all around and I won't be using the carry one considering I have a one year old and I'm not gonna be chasing him so I was gonna have a ergo and then just a car seat that'll grow it has good rating and we won't have to buy another one. But they think my kids have to go cheap and I don't like that. They are to stupid to research rating and all that good stuff and the safety of a car seat. It already pisses me off that my son is in a cheap one. And you can tell it is cheap.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I have been trying so hard to be calm, and nice. This morning though, my fiancès son decided to spit at me and hit me.…

I have been trying so hard to be calm, and nice. This morning though, my fiancès son decided to spit at me and hit me. This is constant with the hitting, the spitting is new. We've both tried sitting and talking to him, time outs, cry it out, try to avoid spanking as much as possible but it has happened. No form of discipline works with him. He hits me, he hits his dad, he hits my son. I'm so afraid of what's going to happen come May when the baby is born. Is he going to try and hurt our baby? What's going to happen? We've both stuck with following the same discipline routines, and sticking with what he or I say. I don't know what to do. I'm so frustrated, I'm so broken. I just want to cry and hide.

** My unborn sons grandfather is trying to sleep with me**

** My unborn sons grandfather is trying to sleep with me** My babys dads father has been messaging me telling me how beautiful i am ect. I thought it was cause he knows ive been feeling down about myself lately during my pregnancy nd was trying to make me feel better. He told me he wanted to tell me something but couldnt because it would get him into trouble. I thought it was something his son said ( my babys dad ) so i told him to tell me. He told me he cant stop thinking about my lips, how he wants to kiss me and then he got very sexual with what he would like to do. I dont want to completley cut him out because he is my babys grandfather and I also dont want him to get mad at me and spread false information. I have all of the messages saved in case that does happen but I dont know what to do. Today he told me hes definetly going to sleep with me. Right now hes the only person I had for support during this pregnancy on my childs dads side of the family so im trying to tread lightly. If it was anyone else id tell them where to go. Someone please tell me how to handle this!!