Ok...I told my SO that I was worried about the baby. All he could tell me is "if we lose it then it's meant to be. I…
Ok...I told my SO that I was worried about the baby. All he could tell me is "if we lose it then it's meant to be. I hate to sound like a dick, but if it's meant to be it's meant to be" then he explained again to me about how he experienced having a miscarriage so he is ok with it. But how can he tell me that?...This is my first baby and I don't like the idea of losing my first baby. I'm trying not to cry about it in front of him...
Virginia·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
wow that's harsh
Harley Snook·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's pretty harsh, men can be so insensitive. When I had my miscarriage, SO MANY people told me "It's okay, it was meant to be, there was something wrong with the baby." I know they wanted to make me feel better but it was the last thing I wanted to hear. My husband wasn't very sensitive about it either. I don't think men connect with pregnancy the way we do. To them it's not real until they hold the baby. I'm sorry he's not being supportive. Just try not to stress for the sake of your baby.
Destiny Moreland·
I agree with @harleyann, men can't/don't relate to our experiences. Be strong and stay in tune with your intuition (meditate, sing to your darling) and do the best you can. <3
jenna tess·
He'd be on the couch for a month if he spoke to me that way. I'm so sorry girl.
mommy boys·
im sorry he said that to you men can be quite rude...i pray for a healthy pregnancy for you.